Easiest way to start?

Wonderful_Copy_9675 · 2024-03-03T23:49:52+00:00

What has helped me:

To ease into it , remove the end goal of getting a girls number or hitting on them. This removes any anxiety fostering due to anticipating a result.

Just simply talk to any woman that’s standing in line next to you, or who is getting your coffee etc. this can be small talk, should be fun, and easy. Just like how you see random strangers interacting in public setting (or what old people do). The goal of this is to just get comfortable talking to strangers.

You can do this at a coffee shop, boutique, retail store, etc. usually people that are working in hospitality and food service are used to interacting with people so places where THEY will be is a great environment to practice

Example of a simple goal moving forward: During the next 8 weeks, have a brief conversation/interaction with 3 women a week.

If you need something even simpler for cold approach specific, start just by giving random strangers compliments that aren’t generic such as “love your outfit/ shoes”

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-03-04T01:55:25+00:00

Just see reality for what it is and don't lie to yourself.

Remind yourself that women WANT to be approached. They want to be flirted with, they want men to be sexual with them. They want it happening in real life more than ever before. It's how most of us were born, approaching is as normal as eating drinking and shitting.

Approaching is now a superpower, too many guys stopped doing it, and most guys that do approach make the girl feel weird because of incongruence (the guy goes in feeling weird about it).

Hello is still a highly effective ice breaker. Literally just walk up to the hottest girl in your vicinity and say hello, her response will guide u into how to continue.

I am nothing near a Chad, I have some beer weight, wear glasses, teeth are mangled from accidents, 5'7", yet I very rarely get ignored or get a cold response when giving a woman i cross paths with a normal greeting.. In fact the hotter the girl, the warmer the response tends to be and the more likely it is to turn into a fun conversation. I haven't figured out why.

You are in NYC. You are in the best place in the universe for approaching, every type of woman imaginable is there, you got this.

TRTGymBro · 2024-03-04T01:27:22+00:00

What is the outcome you want here?

silk_1233 · 2024-03-04T17:04:50+00:00

Start having short postitive interactions with old ladies. Say "hello" make a comment and move on.

You just brought some joy into their lives

Title	Easiest way to start?
Author	packerswoop
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	March 3, 2024 11:20 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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