I have had this problem for like 5 dates in a row. I get a girl over to my place and we drink & watch netflix. . We are being really casual then I escalate to a kiss once by going for it or by asking can I do it. I get her relaxed around me, I do some screening or role-play, we are drinking and conversating but it fails every time So I have got rejected every time doing these things. How do I escalate to a kiss?