Sup all, I try to keep this as short as possible... 2 parts. Bold parts are the questions. (Edit: yeah, it is a bit longer than I wanted, sorry)

Met this girl on Tinder, goes smooth, wants to meet up but I had to cancel 2 times, second time because I was sick. I actually called her and also when I had to cancel. She really liked that, so some advice from me. Later I ask her what she is doing on Friday as I was about to be near Amsterdam for a bbq so combining the two things would be nice. She already had plans to go the club but asks me if I want to come over. Wasn't sure about that, so I would let her know. Wasn't sure about it because the club setting for a first "date" didn't seem so good to me. Decide to go, because I already cancelled two times before.

Meet her, she was surprised to see me because she sent me a message but I didn't reply as my phone was dead. Forgot to charge it. Everything goes well, just playing around, but also going my own way. Having fun by myself, not sticking with her all the time. She asks me to walk her to her bike. Talk for a bit, having fun. Kiss her on the forehead when she said something nice, or maybe a hug. 2 guys have to pick up their bicycle next to us so I just ask them how their night was (we were all tipsy btw), I let them join our conversation. Had a great conversation actually. Teasing her now and then. Then randomly kiss her on the mouth as we look each other in the eyes. Good. Guys leave and one says "you are beautiful people, we are beautiful people!" and I say "yeah we are, except for her". She hits me on the arm. All good. Guys are gone and I throw in a few random kisses. She asks me if I want to come with her because she felt sorry for me having to take the train and bus. Yeah sure why not.

Here the "I fucked it up" part. Got home, I want a drink but she doesn't. Kiss for a bit, get on her bed. Her bed is also her couch. She turns on the TV and leans onto me, kiss. Now I didn't know what to do man... I just try to caress her but she is very sensitive. "It tickles hihi". Try to caress her head, massage it. Same thing. Try kissing at different parts, not just her mouth. Just wasn't sure what to do. She let me grab her ass though. Also, she was clearly tired. I didn't really get any hints to escalate so I choked. So we just spooned and she fell asleep pretty damn quickly I guess. What did I do wrong? Any advice? It was very chill when we woke up, talked for a bit and she even started about the next time/"date". She did a few times actually. I sarcastically said "I'm not sure if there will be a next time though" and she was disappointed and not sure if I was playing or not. Anyways, I leave, we kiss, I grab her ass and say "so do you bring the weed for our Adventure Time night?" (she said it's great to watch that high the night before). But she quit smoking. I say "well then we will have to do with spareribs" (we talked about a restaurant we both like, but I only tried their hamburgers). She likes the idea. I leave.

She sends me a text that evening if I'm still alive. I was working so I read her message when I got home around 5am. Well, at least she was thinking about me. Keep contact for a bit. Just a few messages, not too much. I don't like texting, sorry guys. Tell her we should meetup for spareribs on Friday. I had to take pictures at the same club we met that Friday, so would a great combo. She had to work but would let me know what time she would be done. Didn't work out but she asked me where I would be taking pics. Tells me she will come to the club. "Niceeee" I thought. I had never seen her at this particular party so did she want to see me? Maybe. It seemed like it. Receive a text she might not come as she was tired. That's okay, next time. Later sends a text saying she is somewhere at a bar. I say "next time miss, have fun". She says "thanks, you're in for a surprise". And there she was, with two girl friends, a while later. Hug, kiss on the cheek. Again I think "Niceeee".

But fuck, she was acting a bit weird. A bit detached. I was working so I could not spend all my time with her and I didn't want to. But she would pinch me, even "kick" me when I would walk past her. A few times I gave her a wink and a smile, or a "what are you doing miss" face. Two times or so I would walk over to her but then again she would act weird. I really didn't get it. She wanted attention, but then she would act like a bitch. I found her behavior very rude actually but okay, who am I. Anyways, party is over, people always stand outside to chill. Was talking to 2 women and there she was again. With her two friends. I was joking around in the club because one of her friends didn't want photos so we talked about that, how she was so camera shy and stuff. I want to grab her around her waist and she even steps aside I think (I can't quite remember). Alright whatever. Still having fun. Her friends leave and that's when I asked her "whatsup?". She's like "what?". I tell her she's acting a bit detached, different from last time, but that I could be wrong. "I don't know what you're talking about". Later she leaves with a lame hug. Deleted her number the next day, there is no point in having her number anymore. I just found it very fucking weird, as if it was a whole different woman. Like an angry ex or something. The first time she was so chill and the second time she acted like a bitch...

Would love to hear your thoughts guys. I could have done everything wrong, I have no idea. I'm new to this. Thanks in advance.