Sup guys, I'm doing alright with women in clubs. I usually have a few women around me who are interested. I have never got this far before though. My logistics suck, I think that would help a lot. Gotta try daygame...

Anyways... Long post. Question: Did I fuck up somewhere REAL BAD if sex didn't happen when you're in bed with her? She didn't want to take off her clothes. Kissing and caressing her didn't really help. Read the long story if you need the info...

I meet this very beautiful girl. She actually opens me. I was taking pics (as usual) at a cool party. I can't really remember if I took a pic of her first or that I took it after she opened.

"You're the only okay guy in here" is what she said. After a minute or so I take her apart because the music was way too loud. We talk, I touch her, play around, the usual stuff. I get my arms around her, pull her close, bodies are touching. I look her deep into her eyes and it's silent. She says "That's not happening mister". I reply with "What is not happening?". "You know what I'm talking about, your body language, I'm not easy."... I reply with "Wow hold on, what makes you think I want to kiss YOU and I'm not easy either."

She left her girl friend alone so I say "oh damn, your friend is all alone now, let's go look for her". Her friend actually finds us. She's like "Oh thank God, saaafe me!", but sarcastically. I talk with her friend. Again, nothing too serious, play around. I think she approves. I gotta go take more pics, I give them a drink (a big nice drink, which I got for free) to share.

I pass her a few times, look at her, or not look at her. Having fun, talking to other people, dance. Later I see her talking to a guy, but I can tell she isn't interested.

Fast forward till the end of that party. I tell them they should join me because I'm leaving for another club and I can put them on the guest list. They like the idea, we leave. While we get in line to get their coats I fuck around. "You sound like x-celebrity some times"... "You jerk!", laughing. "You have sexy hairy arms". (Not that hairy but, more than average, I think it's sexy, I love "peach fuzz" (white hairs when they have been tanning)). "You're such an asshole!" hitting me on the arm/chest. "You're not nice!". I reply with "Okay okay... you want me to be honest AND nice?" (I tell her the peach fuzz thing, she thinks it is weird but cute)

We get in a taxi, a bicycle taxi. Was funny as hell, good time. Poor guy, it was raining.

Arrive at next club. We're in line to hang our coats but I have to pee. Also thinking whether I should hang my stuff or put it behind the dj booth. Decide to hang, but they are inside already. It takes a while and finally I can enter the main area. Her friend is standing in line at the toilets. The toilets are next to the wardrobe. She says "Hey we lost you, where were you?". Her face told me something was wrong. Ask her whatsup and she says nothing is wrong. But I can tell something is up. Eventually find out she needed some space as it was a bit crowded. She thanks me for comforting her and I take her with me. "Let's have some fun".

So I find "my" girl. She's talking to a guy. I don't really care and then I see her face, again, she's not interested at all. She looks at me, she's happy to see me. Dude leaves. Guy was irritating her, she tells me. There was another guy who wanted her attention. I was dancing and I had a lot of space somehow, some people joined me and we had fun. I even went as far as saying hi to the guy and pointing to her, giving him the "go" sign. Just to fuck with her (I know she isn't interested, so care). The guy actually walks towards her but she turns around. He comes back, disappointed. I'm like "sorry man". She's all like "How could you, you should be protecting me!"... Tell her I know she's a fierce independent woman and can take care of herself and if things go too far I'm there for her. "You have some great moves mister!". I love dancing. Thinking about taking hip hop classes.

Leave them several times to have fun by myself. Talk to a few other people I know. Even got leftovers (vodka and stuff) so that was nice. Dance with her and her friend. Joke around. Her friend telling me what I should and should not do/say. But I'm stubborn and do exactly what I should not do according to her. I tell her friend "I know she is used to being put on a pedestal" and she says "yup, you're right".

This was great. She actually started kissing me eventually. That felt awesome. The look in her eyes before she started kissing me was great.

Fast forward, party is almost over, her friend wants to leave but she wants to stay with me. She's not sure about what she should do. Party is over in 10 minutes so she wants to leave.I can come with them and even stay. BUT only on the couch. Sure... I'm having a good time, I don't want to go home yet. It's 1.5-2 hours of public transport to my place, so I'd rather just hang out somewhere. We get an Uber. Get to their place and I enter chill mode. Sit on the couch with her. Her friend is taking a shower. We talk for a bit, I touch/caress her while we're talking. A kiss here and there. Friend goes to sleep and she starts lying down on the couch. I lay down behind her and we eventually end up in her bed.

There I just continued the kissing/caressing, trying to calibrate, see what she likes and what not. But she didn't want to take off her clothes. Don't really care, I take off mine. Not sleeping in my jeans and nasty sweaty shirt. Kissing continues but I'm not really getting hints (Please no "DUDE you are in her bed, isn't that enough?"), not the feeling she is down for it. She wasn't really touching me neither. Keep talking for a bit, touching her.

Try to sleep, but I can't. I just keep caressing her. Try to go for inner thighs, moves my hand. Try again. Same shit. She falls asleep, I failed hard. I'd rather just go home alone instead of getting this far and failing.

Well, it is kind of a win, never been this far. Any tips? Also, she started talking about seeing me again while we were in bed. I told her "not sure", she took it pretty serious I think, asking me if I did this with more women. Told her "yes, of course I do". But told her I did want to see her again as I had a great time. Went home.

I just sent her a message that we should meet for drinks and shameless flirting on Thursday night (I will be in town). She said she wanted to but is out of town for plans, but would let me know if she would make it. She's going to flake 100% right? I do want to see her again. Even if it'll end up in no sex again.