Eye contact

epsil119 · 2013-02-26T17:40:03+00:00

You are giving too much fucks. You are only approaching girls if they give you an initiative to (eye contact) because you fear rejection. Fuck that approach girls you think are HOT not because they INVITE you to approach. Also, in a club/bar setting your body language is very important when you approach. Be relaxed and confident. Kino immediately when you open and always remember: stay in set until you get rejected (NO PREMATURE EJECTION).

Lastly, don't think too much about being Asian. I'm Asian myself and you just have to work a little harder than your non-Asian buddies, but if a girl sees you are a confident fun guy, race becomes a non-issue. If she doesn't like you because of your race, then you don't want that girl anyways!

IANAPUA_Yet · 2013-02-26T17:46:42+00:00

Frankly part of me suspects that the buck for most girls stops at Asian.

Nonsense. There's a tendency for people to date within their race, so obviously an equivalent white guy will have better luck with white girls than you, but so fucking what? Unless there's some sort of surgery that you're considering, there's nothing you can do about that, so quit worrying about it. Focus on the things you can control, such as your body language, eye contact, and inner game.

However it’s the first instant, making eye contact and click or what not that I have trouble with.

Practice. This is actually the same sticking point I'm dealing with. Just spend some time focusing purely on eye contact. Don't worry about approaching or anything else. Just look at attractive women and pat yourself on the back any time they look away first.

When you get the hang of that, practice making a sly smile during the eye contact. If you have trouble, use Wygant's "dirty girl" imagery. When you're able to hold eye contact and smile, then you're ready to start approaching again.

Baby steps, my good man.

WayneDaniels · 2013-02-26T18:55:39+00:00

There are two different approaches to eye contact. The business and the personal. Picture a triangle.
For the business triangle: The points being from the center of each eye to the middle of the forehead. You want to look towards the center of the triangle.
For the more personal triangle. Eye to eye once again and make the bottom point of the triangle at the tip of the nose. Look into the center of the triangle. You will appear to be making eye contact without the thousand yard stare.
Good luck!

KeroKeroKeroppi · 2013-02-27T06:33:55+00:00

Eh, your taller than 50% of guys, I know plenty of Asian players. Girls in clubs often try hard NOT to make eye contact with anyone. You have to approach without it.

DerpChang · 2013-02-27T08:06:23+00:00

Go to the gym.

I'm an Asian American male and ever since I've started to hit the weights and get some good broader shoulders and bigger chest, I've gotten a lot more attention from women.

Recently, I've been macking on more White and Spanish women than I ever have before, it's fantastic!

tomansari · 2013-02-27T08:30:18+00:00

only 5'10, id say that is pretty average

snurrefel · 2013-02-27T11:15:44+00:00

" If I get a girl to look me in the eye and smile a little. " I like eyefucking too, but you need to make the approach.

Dojavido · 2013-02-26T18:02:46+00:00

In Asian cultures, there's something about NOT making eye contact that is practiced pretty commonly, but I guess we have to overcome that since we should assimilate into American culture.....hmmm

LexLucifer · 2013-02-27T09:07:07+00:00

Listen we need to talk. I'm 5'11 Asian and I have hooked up with countless white girls in the club. Here are the things I'm doing: 1. Workout and get fit 2. Wear a bright colored slim fit dress shirt AND skinny tie (bitches love ties) 3. Stand up tall and walk with confidence 4. Learn to give a sexy smile or nod 5. Stop giving so much fucks Optional 6. Dye your hair to a bright color (I did this last week) *Also note: you kind of have to be somewhat attractive for clubbing, girls consider me a 7 or 8. If not you can make up for it by working out more than I am. Muscles add to ratings.

Title	Eye contact
Author	Amadeusnox
Upvotes	24
Comments	12
Date	February 26, 2013 4:40 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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