so last weekend i had phenominal txt game against a girl. i was the prize, there was tons of flirting, i got her horny enough that i managed to invite myself over at 3am with very weak token LMR.

so a couple days i txt her when i leave work. i tell her i'm passing her exit, and invite myself over again, and i get out.

shes made herself alot less available since fucking, the txt flirting completely dropped off. only IOIs i got was her complimenting my member and fucking abilities. i ask to come over, shes busy.

last night she txts me "just so you know...i'm not looking for anything big from you ok?" i jump to agree. we both agree that we want to keep fucking. but then she tells me she only wants sex and txt, and not to hang out. i ask why, she says she doesn't want to give me the girlfriend vibe. now, i probably should have let it go at that. i have no one-itis, but my ego was a little bruised. she doesn't want to be friends? wtf, i'm way more interesting than her. and thats not just my mindset, she is genuinely dull by comparison. so to try recovering my ego, i try to gain her as a friend.

i explain that i'm not looking for anything at all and don't expect exclusiveness, and that i dont want a gf. (all true things) and that i'm fine with keeping it casual, but i'm good to be friend and it's up to her. she reluctantly agrees to be friends. so now i've gone from being totally dominant, to a beta asking for her time. next i tell her that i'm gonna be up early tomorrow, and see if she wants me to come over. she says tomorrow is probably no good, then txts me back a minute later, saying to txt her when i wake up and that it's a maybe. i txt her in the morning, she says shes too tired and about to nap (was up all night. works graveyard)

she already has control. at this rate, i see myself becoming less and less of a sexual excitement to her, and eventually i might lose my status as fuckbuddy. or at least not be a regular.

how should i play this to regain control and reinitiate the seduction? should i back off and wait for her to contact ME wanting to meet up again? it's making me feel beta, and messing with my game elsewhere on other targets