Failed

command76 · 2021-11-10T19:59:07+00:00

You shot your shot. That takes guts. Besides she may still contact you. You never really know.

buttholepoopbutt · 2021-11-10T20:41:04+00:00

Woah dude you didn’t fail lol she doesn’t have to call you today lol she might not ever but you shot ur shot and she knows you got interest now. Keep doing you

000001001 · 2021-11-11T23:08:04+00:00

Thanks everyone for your input. She got ahold of me today, so it must of not been as bad as I thought. 😁

roboslobtron · 2021-11-10T19:27:26+00:00

You should've gotten her social media. It's more informal and people feel more comfortable beginning initial contact that way. I'm always hesitant to give out my phone number. Don't let this set back make you retreat, get out of that comfort zone.

GWARNCUDDY · 2021-11-10T20:19:33+00:00

Don’t be a pussy anymore, this was the first step into becoming less of one, if you like something go for it.

Btw, don’t be falling in love with every girl that looks at you a certain way… it’s in a way desperate behavior.

Also, rather than give her your number, should rather just talked to her in person because you’ve already said a few words before, but on the other hand you put the ball in her court by giving your info so if she is interested or not , we will know by her reaching out.

Ryaan200 · 2021-11-10T22:51:28+00:00

Are you Asian btw

Schuhsuppe · 2021-11-10T23:27:52+00:00

I did something similar. It took one and a half weeks to respond

R0ZPIERDALAT0R · 2021-11-10T23:57:28+00:00

Mate, don't feel bad! As someone posted down already you shot your shot. That's all men can do and that's what they SHOULD do. In my eyes you've won that encounter.

The only thing you've done wrong is giving her your number. You should have asked for hers instead. Women don't call men by principle, it's sort of their role to be "conquered", not to be the "conquerors". Since she said she's gonna call you I don't think the case is lost. What I'd do is I'd go back there and say something like: "Ok, how about you give me YOUR number so I can take you out sometime next week? You like coffee?" or sth along these lines. If she'll say "no", just be cool with it and move on.

IntroMystique · 2021-11-11T00:04:05+00:00

There’s no need to feel bad about what you did. You had the courage to go for what you wanted.

What would’ve been the conclusion outside of this? You just awkwardly stare at each other for several more months and it plagues you even more? No, that is not a healthy strategy nor the way forward.

I also want to add: Give it time. She doesn’t have to respond the first day. I’ve had a girl or two reach out to me like this in the past and despite being attracted to them, I still felt anxious about kickstarting the rapport. So give it a little more time and remember that you made the best move.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2021-11-11T00:29:43+00:00

I dont get why you regret asking, dude you have the wrong mentality here. An approach takes balls and you should be proud for daring to do what most men can’t. That makes you more masculine and more worthy of being admire by girls. Whether she calls you or not is irrelevant, the point is that if you did what you wanted to do despite the difficulty and that’s what matters to build your confidence.

The problem is you are so focused on the result that you don’t enjoy the path to get there. It’s like saying that you want to win the race but you don’t like speed. Absurd

Title	Failed
Author	000001001
Upvotes	1
Comments	17
Date	November 10, 2021 7:12 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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