today I sadly was victim of something it's not talk about enough, we get too focus on improving our "game" and "attractiveness" that we forget what to do once you get good enough with those aspects. After practicing game for around a year I've gotten pretty good at it but I've witnessed how I'm constantly sabotaging myself to avoid getting girls. many of us have made our identity around game and self improvement but this is detrimental in the long run as we don't want to give the next step. Today I had this realization after cold approaching a girl she was a solid 10/10 and we chatted for around 10 minutes before I left without asking for her number or social media. why do I do this to myself? I'm scare of actually winning for once. we need to see if our fear of winning is the thing actually damaging us. sometimes we already are attractive enough but sabotage ourselves.