I had this first date with a girl, we met at a bar had chat there first. We discussed basic stuff about our life, I let her speak more. Then I asked her to come to my place, so we can play ps5 little bit and I will make you a drink. I had broken the touch barrier at the bar already, and when we are at my place I suggested small game to make out with her. But I could have escalated more and asked her to take to the bed, since it’s first date, I just stopped after making out for one two minutes, but while making out I remember she suddenly stopped and said let’s do it slowly and I followed her. After that we stayed together played ps5 little bit more she said she wanted to leave. After full day of no reply. She said she feels a friendly vibe from me.

At this point I feel she might not be attracted to me, mostly a looks problem. Because I remember she mentioned about her ex at some point and said this guy was in a popular dating game like love island after her and she watch lot of these dating games now, because I’m an average looking not that fit guy.because conversations were smooth but something is missing

Edit: my last date lead to ons, because next day she replied everything went fast and she felt bad, now I can’t seem to find the balance