I'm a 27 year old man who discovered game around 3 years ago. Since then I've had a dream of absolutely crushing it. Daily mental images of me effortlessly approaching tons of gorgeous women and having a very successful social/sex life have been my companion. However I'm embarrassed to share the truth....The real story is that the adrenaline & stress of approaching women during the day quickly caused me to buckle. Years of terror-induced paralysis have resulted in me almost entirely giving up on my dream. I've put day game in the back of my mind for the past year and a half or longer.

Then, I saw her working at the local grocery store. A stunning college-aged brown skinned Latina woman. After my second failed attempt to try to approach her, I returned home and broke down. My mental dialogue flooded with negative statements; "You're a loser. You'll never achieve your goals with women. You're dream of having an awesome sex life will never come true." In that moment, as tears flooded from my eyes, I was officially locked within whole-hearted conviction; I am a loser.

After a couple of weeks and some encouraging conversations with friends, I finally decided enough was enough. I marched into that grocery store with bugs crawling in my feet and a swarm of butterflies swirling around in my stomach. I sat on a nearby bench for 2 minutes and saw her darting down the hall. "It's now or never." said my brain. I quickly caught up to her, and what followed was a friendly & wholesome conversation. She expressed flattery for my attraction to her and gave me credit for maintaining the confidence to make the approach. Even though she turned out to be in a relationship, it didn't matter at all. The interaction was entirely rewarding in and of itself.

I share this story for those else that are struggling. It often requires courage to make your dreams a reality. I was 100% convinced beyond a shadow of a doubt that I would be unable to accomplish this. However none of my fears came true that day. No customers sabotaged the set. She did not tell me to get lost in a scoffing tone. Now I have the gift of being able to recall a memory where I thought I was defeated, but instead bounced back & conquered my self-doubt.

Thanks for reading my story.