I’m starting to understand being dominant and holding frame. I’m finally having the right mindset, but just getting more questions.

I’ve understood now that the question isn’t about what she thinks of me but what I think of her. The game is never to mould to a woman but find one that moulds to me.

I shouldn’t sit pondering whether I should text her or if its too soon and I’ll look needy and how will she react or think of me. I want to text her so I do, and how she reacts to that will decide whether I want her in my life or not.

If she wants to go clubbing and I see it as, that is not a good idea accidents can happen and destroy a relationship. I don’t think hey if I say this she might think I’m insecure and be grossed out. I think hey if she doesn’t submit to my point of view she isn’t for me.

And if I made a joke that I don’t see as offensive but she got really pissed. I don’t crumble and say you’re right out of fear of losing her. I hold on to my world that I made an innocent joke and she’s over reacting.

So in a way after all this learning, I’ve come back to square one. The infamous “just be yourself”. Hold true to my viewpoints. Don’t submit my beliefs and desires out of fear that I’ll lose the girl. Live in my own world.

Now I realize there are 2 keys.

You must be the mould a woman fits in.

So this goes back to what I was saying about holding frame and being alpha. It basically boils down to having a back bone and keeping true to yourself.

You don’t start moulding yourself based on her reactions. To fit in her mould because you need the pussy. To make her like you.

  1. (Here is my question)

You must make her fit into your mould. Have her think “how will he react?”, “what does he think about me?”. Have her changing for you.

But how.

In a world where every girl has tinder, thousands of options. Thousands of huge muscular wealthy good looking chads ready to rail her.

How do I make her see me as the prize, how do I get her to WANT to fit my mould. To submit her frame to mine.