Understanding The Emotional World

Humans, especially women, gravitate towards emotions. The reason they oft fuck and desire nobodies, men with no future, men with nothing, is because these men make them FEEL good. It doesn't matter if the guy sells cocaine and ruins lives for a living, the person makes her FEEL good thus in her mind he must BE good. Notice how women now a days operate, you go girl-ism, feminism, all this bullshit. Its because being a lazy fat slob who sits and home and takes dick 24/7 from chad FEELS good thus it must good. Women go to where the feelings are good. And good feelings must also be right, they backwards rationalize. So even if a person is shitty in general, if she feels good around him, surprise he is all of a sudden a good guy inside for x,y,z reasons.

Betas are BORING, they provide no good feelings thus they are worthless. Betas are just tools, to create a stable family, to do house work, fix the car, and be a slave. They provide no feelings and women are only loyal to their feelings, thus betas get no loyalty. And furthermore, they are tools that are not even needed until the women reach their later unprime ages and decide its time to settle down. When a beta finally blows up for doing all this work and getting nothing in return, he makes her feel bad, thus again from backwards rationalization he must be bad, and now he is manipulative and all this x,y,z shit when really he is a good guy that actually loves her.

TLDR; Make a girl FEEL good. If you make them feel good it doesn't matter who you really are, it doesn't even matter if you love them or care about them, nothing matters you will BE good in their eyes. If you make them feel nothing or feel bad, you must BE bad, even if your intentions for them are good and you genuinely want to help them and love them.

Making her feel good

This is where frame comes in.

The definition of frame is often explained very poorly but I've devised a solid concrete explanation. Frame is your world, not your logical world though, your emotional world. If you're having a jolly old time rocking out and some bitch starts yelling in your face, if you get upset you've entered her emotional world. She brought negativity and you've accepted that negativity, ergo she is under your skin, in your head, and you are emotionally invested. She will leave giving 0 fucks and you will be there thinking in your head for 2 hours "what the fuck is wrong with that bitch". Likewise, if a bitch is yelling in your face and you say something outrageously funny and they start laughing, their mood opens up and now they are in your emotional frame. You're the leader now. You will think nothing of it and they will leave and think for 2 hours some positive shit about you and they will emotionally invest.

So how do you get pussy wet, or even make friends for that matter. You go in a room and you fucking own it, you're awesome, you're having a party and you will SHARE this party. Some men and women will join the infectious party you're providing they will become your friends and their pussy will get wet for you because you provide good emotion. You bring people out of their boring miserable life, you go to work in a boring miserable 9-5 and you bring people fucking joy. This makes people attracted to you, this makes you friends and gets you pussy.

Shit testing is a way to see if you're emotionally strong. Women will "shit test" you to destroy the fun. They want to see if they can ruin your mood. They want to see if they can disturb your piece and bring you into their negativity. If you fail the shit test you've given her control, you've shown her that she has power to fuck up your mood, she owns you emotionally. If you pass the shit test you bring her into your fun, you show her in the emotional realm you're the boss. This is often why women argue with non-sense logic and say stupid shit. It isn't a game of chess, its a game of who can change the other persons emotions, and saying non-sense dumb shit to your well thought out argument is going to piss you off thus they win the emotional battle. They play a completely different game than us.

This is why even assholes can get women. They are assholes but they have a strong frame. They bring in a negative energy frame but they will FUCK up everyone else's emotions, thus on a primal level they're still "dominant", they still control the emotional world. Unfortunately, as three days grace says, I'd rather feel pain than nothing at all. Even being forced into negative emotion is sexier to women than being fucking boring.

TL;DR: Bring powerful emotion, force people into your emotional world, do not accept their emotional world. Ideally, bring people positive emotions and reject negative emotions; this is true alpha game. Being an asshole means giving people negative emotions and rejecting positive; this can work on immature women because people would rather feel pain than nothing at all but ultimately its not a great strategy because you will make enemies in life and people will want to fucking ruin you.

So how do you hold frame?

I've discovered paradoxically that some of the things we do to improve ourselves actually make us weaker. We hit the gym to develop enormous muscles but along the way we get bigorexia and insecurity about how we stack up. Guess what, you've developed an emotional weakness, guess what you're going to get shit tested with and guess what you're going to fail. You can be the biggest guy in the room, but if a woman can trigger you by saying "you've lost some muscle", you've shown your emotionally a bitch. And emotions are what women play by. Emotions are what make women wet. Emotional strength is key. This is why kings with the world to offer can lose women to bums on the street. Emotional strength is KEY.

So how do we develop emotional strength. Ironically it goes completely against self improvement. You have to be willing to believe inside and outside that no matter what you are ENOUGH.

A skinny bitch who is happy being a skinny bitch will steal the girl out of the hulks arms if the hulk consumes media depicting only bigger hulks making him insecure. A woman will get wetter for a poor man who isn't insecure about being poor and thinks he has enough versus a rich CEO who only looks at even richer CEOs and feels like he doesn't stack up.

But living a life of slobbery, turning into a woman isn't right either, no one will take care of us, hence we must make our own money and build our own muscles to protect ourselves. So how do we both improve ourselves without developing emotional weakness?

Do not study other peoples lives as it will only breed jealousy. That guy on tiktok two times as big as you, well he doesn't have a job he stays in the gym 6 hours a day. That guy with way more money than you, well he was born into it. That guy with 1000 women by his arm, all he does is game bitches all day, he has no real future or anything, he just knows the secret of emotion. This is why your security needs to come from within, you don't KNOW other peoples lives. If you're pushing yourself every day, this is where your validation should come from, within yourself. This is what will make you secure. Who gives a fuck if that bitch said you're skinny, you work 10 hour shifts and spend 3 in the gym, YOU know your life she doesn't her words are meaningless. She doesn't actually CARE how skinny you are, she cares about how you FEEL about your size. Remember, women play on the EMOTIONAL world.

Genuinely love yourself. Try your best every day and let your own self be your source of validation. Once you study only your own life and try to improve it, and use this as validation you will feel awesome, thus you will be awesome and make other people feel awesome. Thus you pass shit tests with ease, pass male ball busting with ease, become a charismatic person to be around and make friends and fuck pussy. When she is in a bar she isn't thinking huh I won't fuck this guy because he doesn't make 100000k a year, she is thinking how does this guy make me feel? If you feel awesome and secure and fun and amazing she will also, and thus she will feel attracted to you.

So to summarize

Alpha is the leader of emotion, they make other people feel what he is feeling.

Asshole aggressive domineering people can be alpha. They feel negativity and make other people also, thus they lead the emotional world. This is bad alpha, you will make enemies and attract damaged pussy.

Good alphas bring people joy, happiness, and great vibes. This will make friends and get quality pussy. Women will shit test you by bringing negativity to see if you are faking your amazing awesomeness, you must not get emotionally stifled, turn their negativity into an opportunity to further show how awesome you are.

To not get emotionally stifled you must love yourself, be secure with yourself, and genuinely feel good enough. That is all that matters.

CHANGE HER MOOD NOT HER FUCKING MIND. HER MIND WILL FOLLOW WHERE HER MOOD GOES.