Greetings everyone..

I have recently come to the US to complete my university education. I've been following the PUA scene for a while, looking at all the self improvement guides, and read a lot of books. The problem is I've noticed that most of this advice focuses on shallow relationships with little to no commitment. After improving myself a lot, fixing my looks, and losing weight I've had no problem approaching women (and even being approached by them), although I've had to directly reject every single one due to them not sharing my values or very obviously messing around with others at the same time. I come from an Islamic country, and although I can separate religion from social interactions, I CANNOT abandon my values in order to get sex from women uninterested in me. The women on campus here are super 'easy-going' who have no problem putting themselves out there without restraining their urges and waiting for someone they love. This is unbelievable to me since I do not understand the purpose nor excitement in those relationships.

Now my question is, how can I find a woman to have a relationship with, and later have kids and marriage? Something serious and not casual, so if anyone has any good books/materials or even advice it would be amazing. Currently I am in the state of New Jersey if that is important. Also should be noted that I am still a virgin and intend to stay that way until I find the woman for me.