when im talking to a girl during a cold approach and I'm a few minutes into the interaction, I have a few difficulties.. when I try to tease them sometimes i come at them a bit too hard and they get offended (should i even do this initially?). when I try to flirt I am too obvious and compliment her looks or something it feels too needy.. i often get numbers that don't translate into dates. for daygame .. is a quick in and out approach better then a long interaction..