Just got back from what felt like a bizarre experience to me.
Firstly, I'm a massive noob with this seduction stuff, I got into it because it seemed like a great way to actually improve myself and to actually develop some healthy relationships. I'm 24, and have struggled with social interaction for a long time but the last 6 months I have been trying to improve my life and myself. I have only started approaching in the last 2 weeks.
This date came from a dating app, which I know is frowned upon around here. I have been approaching in person, but my approaches suck. So I figured fuck it, I can get better experience by also just setting up dates in addition to my approaches.
Anyway so cut to today, I match with this girl and I tell her let's meet. I meet her and holy fuck I actually managed to hold a conversation, I wasn't awkward! Awesome. I made her come shopping with me (lol) and then we went for coffee after and some random 4D movie thing. I tried to lead her as much as I could. What I really struggled with was kino and actually building attraction. I think I built rapport, she was laughing a fair bit. Here's how it went down, maybe you guys can give me some more advice this way:
When we met, we just waved and said hi. I didn't ask for her name cause I read somewhere that you shouldn't ask for a name before they ask yours? A thing about emotional investment.
I take her shopping with me to buy food local to my home country. She asks me some question like do you trust me? I said I don't know that yet. After we buy the stuff, I have to go back in to buy something I forgot. So I asked her to hold the bag of shopping while I went in.
She asked to go into a shop after, I said righto no worries or whatever, and I went. She bought some shit and off we went. Honestly I just made her go shopping with me, so I figured it was only fair to do that.
All up until here, little contact. Getting onto the escalator I tried the hand on the back and push forward kino that I saw suggested here.
In this movie thing we went to (it only went for like 4 minutes), she grabbed my arm cause it was scary. I put my hand on her leg here and she was fine with it. I probs should have tried to kiss her here I think. I also didn't pay for the movie.
After that we went for coffee. I paid for her coffee. I genuinely liked her but I feel like it might have been a mistake. I'm not sure.
I didn't hug her goodbye cause we were on the train. Probably also a mistake.
I tried to schedule another meetup for sometime soon.
All in all, this was legit the first date I've been on lol. It was a lot of fun and I really enjoyed it but I have a lot of things I want to improve on. Rip into me, give me tips, call me beta whatever. I'm just here to learn.
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