First date ideas

quinnmcd · 2019-02-26T02:09:18+00:00

Games and a bar? Sounds like a perfect date to me.

Gives you something fun to do and something to drink to loosen up.

iamjosan · 2019-02-26T01:39:48+00:00

If that’s what you want to do then do it bro

BloodMuffin · 2019-02-26T02:39:29+00:00

Axe throwing? It's a bit pricey but probably something she hasn't done before.

skatinislife446 · 2019-02-26T03:23:38+00:00

D & B is a great date venue. You can use the games as a catalyst for teasing and challenging her.

Scohr · 2019-02-26T08:01:12+00:00

Dave and busters is a great date spot. However it really depends how good your rapport is. If you’re both chill fun people it’ll be awesome. But if there’s some nerves and you don’t know each other too well it can sometimes be a little awkward. I took an ex gf there on our second date and it was one of the awkwardest dates I’ve been on, but further down our relationship one of our fave date activities became going to arcades.

Don’t hate on the coffee date. Coffee date in a cool neighborhood and then walk around and look in other shops is still great. It’s low pressure and let’s you set things up to do something really cool on the second date.

dailymanup · 2019-02-27T05:14:26+00:00

Nothing wrong with that. The most important thing is how you act on the date. When you're there, avoid turning into Mr. Attentive, trying to make sure she's having fun. That makes you seem needy. Instead, focus on YOU having fun, and bringing her along for the ride. If you're having fun and sharing that fun with her, she will have fun.

But if you focus on her, like if you asked something like: "are you having fun", she will say "yes" but it won't be true. Then she'll start ghosting you after the first date. Women want a man who leads and takes charge. Do that in this setting by YOU having fun and sharing it with her.

Subtle difference but it creates a HUGE DIFFERENCE in attraction. Check out this video on why girls ghost. The video talks about text, but the same concept applies to in person.

Title	First date ideas
Author	whatdonow17
Upvotes	7
Comments	7
Date	February 26, 2019 1:16 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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