First date tips??

Captain_w00t · 2020-11-12T11:24:32+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

TheDevilPutD · 2020-11-12T08:24:40+00:00

Do whatever the fuck you want not what she wants. Grow a pair.

Idontknowhow99 · 2020-11-12T07:17:40+00:00

Be confident, Be funny and enjoy the time with her without thinking too much. Dont act like her Boyfriend, and the most important thing: let her talk. Just ask her questions about her. During the date, touch her a little, be close to her to create the sexual tension. Have the mentality that you are the best, and be misterious. Don't say too much about you, dont show ur feelings etc. Get her emotional. Later then, kiss her and do the rest ;) Sorry for my bad english, good luck and have fun.

mg26szn · 2020-11-12T08:41:35+00:00

Your only expectation going in should be having a good time. During the meet don’t be in your head and overthinking every word, just say whatever comes to your mind, and if nothing does for a few seconds that’s fine, silence builds tension. Basically, just be present and have fun.

Kino is huge to show sexual intent, start small and work your way up. Always go in for the kiss (if you want to of course), otherwise she’ll think you’re not interested. If it doesn’t come off, it’s not a death sentence, just continue the conversation and don’t give a fuck. Later make another move if you want to. 3 moves don’t work, you’re probably out of luck. The worst thing you can do is react poorly to a failed attempt to kiss her, the interaction is dead if you do that. Just be cool, show that you’re not needy and keep the vibe relaxed.

And have your logistics down so that you can escalate effectively if you want to. Simple as that.

atomant88 · 2020-11-12T09:20:57+00:00

keep it short, keep it cheap, establish attraction, make sure theyre not a catfish, leave them wanting more

the second date is where you spend a bit of cash and have an adventure together. something active, not passive. Not dinner, not a movie.

BurnItDownSR · 2020-11-12T10:30:59+00:00

She probably wants to have sex more than you think.

Its a mistake I used to make a lot with girls from Tinder man. Acted like they were more or less neutral and it frustrated them because I took too long to escalate when they just wanted to fuck already.

Not saying all Tinder girls are like that but just have that in mind so you can try moving a little faster and seeing what happens or so you can observe the cues for it.

Also, having balls doesn't mean being 100% inconsiderate like u/TheDevilPutD mentioned. Its not a zero sum game, you can do what she wants while still being able to do what you want.

Title	First date tips??
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Date	November 12, 2020 6:44 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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