Never really spoke to many girls even when I went clubbing. Anxious a lot of the time and constantly in fear.
After a bad experience at the club 2 days ago, I told myself I aint gonna live like this no more so decided to approach to improve game because there is no better learning than doing that.
With all my mates telling me that I am only going to improve by going out and my only option currently is cold approach because I cant make it to the clubs.
With RSDmax's advice of "the moment I said hi I already won, anything else is a bonus" mentality, I told myself I aint going back home until I talked to someone.
After about 20 minuites of walking around missing out on multiple opportunities I said fuck it I've had bad rejections and it cannot be as bad as that. I went up to a pretty hot 21 year old and said honestly, I saw you and had to say hi, I mustered the courage to talk to you. It was a good interaction as in I was going to get rejected but it wasn't going anywhere which I was completely cool with. Interaction was quite awkward because it was my first interaction and I have more or less no experience, with me hestitant to exchange numbers at the end to which she said no thanks but made her smile a few times prior.
Am so glad I made an approach and honestly wasn't as bad as I thought. Approaching itself was easier than I thought but the interaction is my next goal. You gotta start somewhere and honestly this felt a lot better than not approaching as a whole.
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