First thing that pops in your mind

judahman8 · 2018-08-01T18:48:03+00:00

I try to say stuff that I feel like I maybe shouldn't say. For instance I was at a party that had nothing but coast gaurd folk and it was all stuffy and proper and shit. I said "hey does anyone actually know how a bong works?" Everyone got mad silent because they aren't allowed to smoke weed, then this one guy says "yeah actually I think it works like bla bla bla" we had a good ten minute conversation about bongs and that single statement started the party. Everyone loosened up and started talking and laughing about all kinds of stuff. It was like I gave them permission to say whatever they wanted.

Try to remember that everyone is trying not to say anything wrong and they end up being boring. Say what you want, you can always apologize or take it back if you really have to.

I have some more stories I'd like to share. One time I was at a college party and I was from out of town and didn't know anyone. The worst part was that it was around Halloween and I was told it was a costume party bug I was the only one wearing a costume. I was dalhsim from street fighter and noone even knew who that was for some reason. It was like everyone got together and said fuck this guy lol.

So I said fuck you guys too. I just walked up to the 2 hottest girls and said. "You look like you want to make out with her". I was expecting a fuck off but they ended up making out. Everyone was looking at me like I was thd man after that for some reason. Again, it was like I fueled the part fire and everyone immediately turned up to ten.

This is bringing back a lot of memories, feel free to stop reading. The first time I ever went out solo gaming I walked up this girl who was wearing a choker and said "are you into bdsm?" I was expecting her to get offended but she did the opposite and was immediately showing me a bunch iois.

I said that to another girl that was the hottest girl in a club that was full of tens. She said yes and started trying to tie me up with my own boa. She started telling me all about the shits shes done like videos and sex parties and crazy shit. I ended up almost dating that girl but I moved.

Anyways you should just say what you want. People usually appreciate someone with the courage to do and say what they want

kyzen142 · 2018-08-04T03:00:35+00:00

It is not about what you say it is about how u say it dude I assure you if you just have the courage to speak your mind with confidence it is 100 times better than saying the right/safest thing with doubt. Pay attention to how you are feeling not to what you should say.

tr0_way · 2018-08-01T17:12:11+00:00

Just say it. If they don't like you for who you are, why would you even want to talk to them.

Title	First thing that pops in your mind
Author	AHigherTruth
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	August 1, 2018 4:27 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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