First time cold approach. Any feedback is welcome guys

memedealer22 · 2017-07-02T11:54:26+00:00

Alright I try to help with a hybrid of mix of u/CoachToughLove and u/memedealer22.

First off, great f#@king job bro that is awesome that you're doing all these wonderful things like lifting meditating.

Secondly, I am so proud of you for climbing up that ego mountain and putting urself out there.

Thirdly, I do have to ask why your first sentence you say to this girl is " do you speak English." I'm definety not saying that this is a bad idea, I just think there's a part ultou left out (like do you live in area where speaking English is a minority)

My next question is when you say "It was super late at night." What time are we talking about here. Also are you saying that you two are the only people in this subway station, late night. If this is what your doing, don't, that's very creepy.

It reminds me of this https://youtu.be/5pftxSfWH3s (skip to 0:35)

while I am proud of you for cold approaching, I think you might be doing it at the wrong times. You want her to feel comfortable with you. You don't want her to feel like tour going to rape her.

Anyways I am very proud that your approaching, practice makes perfect.

As always tell me how it goes in future!

Woujo · 2017-07-02T14:24:35+00:00

Did she not shake your hand when you put your hand out? If so, that means you probably came off as creepy.

cockycomedy · 2017-07-03T11:22:32+00:00

Good job.

What you are doing is a "direct approach" There are times it works great, and there are times it is just out of place.

Let's list what kind of approaches there are

Dynamic: She is moving, and has to be somewhere, take the bus, walking by and you will never see her again: Do a direct approach.It's ok to make her feel like she blew your mind away and you think she is special, it's like a scene from a movie, a once in a lifetime experience for her.

Static: She is sitting at a coffee shop, she is in your class, at work.. : An indirect approach might be better. Don't give a compliment out of the blue, ask her something about what she is doing / or the environment, and keep talking, change the topic to something about her of course. Not too high energy.

Dynamic in Static: This is when the girl is stationary but may leave at any time, she isn't trapped or anchored to where she is. Bars, festivals, nightclubs are like this: Do a direct approach but don't compliment her directly, compliment her style, clothes, accessories, hair.. Because every guy is doing that all night. She is immune to it. Then talk and keep it light.

Of course, for every 100 girls you approach

30 are in a loving relationship
10 are not interested in your type
5 are lesbian
10 are on their period, or just angry
15 are not interested in meeting anyone new
10 don't like being approached
10 are just mean spirited rude people

That leaves you with 5. Out of the 5, 4 are ready to fuck any guy who approaches them like a real man, 1 is really really interested in you and may be your next girlfriend. You never know which one out of that 100 is that 1 girl, so you keep approaching and improving your skills.

Title	First time cold approach. Any feedback is welcome guys
Author	soualy
Upvotes	6
Comments	4
Date	July 2, 2017 9:52 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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