I’m 22M. I do well with picking up women, and securing dates through online apps. I’m not looking for something too serious, and most women I associate myself with know this.

My usual date routine is ice cream or coffee shops at night. We meet up, and build chemistry through conversation. We then walk around the city where I initiate kino. If I lived in my own living space, I would then ask them if they wanted to come back to my place. If all went well, I’d secure the bag, and do the deed. What really happens is, we sit in my car awkwardly for awhile and make small talk. The date kinda fizzles out, and we both go home.

I’ve hooked up with girls in cars, but it’s hard to do with my coupe, and not really ideal for a “romantic” experience. I know some of you guys will suggest, “why don’t you just go back to her place?” In my experience, these girls also live with their parents, have roommates who are afraid will slut shame them, or honestly just skeptical of having a dude she just met come over. I know some of you will also suggest getting a hotel or Airbnb, but I’m not spending $120 just in hopes of getting pussy.

I’ve slept with 12 girls since losing my virginity at 18. I’ve only brought 2 of those girls over my parents’ because they were girlfriends. The 10 other girls I smashed were living in some type of space of their own. Dorm, apartment, etc. They took the initiative to invite me over which made things easy.

I would bring girls over to my parents’ house if they weren’t so nosey and awkward. They’ll wanna know everything about this girl I’m just trying to smash for the night. Plus, my bedroom door doesn’t even have a lock on it. The icing on the cake is that my parents are still paranoid about COVID, and don’t want me bringing strangers with germs over. It’s honestly kinda pathetic, but I’ll luckily be moving out into my own apartment next month. I definitely think that will help my case with pulling one night stands and casual flings. Any other guys go through something like this?