Man the sidebar is exellent. Thanks mods and experts who created the sidebar, maybe you guys don't get the gratitude for putting in so much effort to help us but I am surely greatful and wish you guys to recive good blessings tenfold to what you gave us.

Beginners: Guys from experimenting today, take baby steps instead of leaping into the whole thing right away. DUDES talking to everyone is key it will surely build up your confidence and social skills. I was theorizing what if I just talk to everyone today instead of going after the HB's? Well I put my theory into motion and had a great day, instead of keeping to myself and being selfish I met alot of people and had a great day. Take it step by step, read the books and gain knowledge, watch the videos too. Don't worry if you don't build confidence at first everything takes time. I read the article on talking to everyone and boy did it work. Everytime you talk to someone you are taking a step to defeating anxiety and overcoming your fear. And even if you talked to alot of people and when you see another person you feel like you don't need to say anything, say something agin, go the extra mile. Guys it's going to be tough but you(and I) are destined for great things, don't sell yourself short of a great life and great women. Remember take baby steps, this worked for me don't just go rushing into the big thing, You are preparing yourself for the big thing by taking baby steps, follow Tofufu's principle he started off small and ended up hitting it big by getting a FREAKING FOURSOME!!! Awsome man!

Keep pushing guys don't give up.