First field report, please let me know what I can do to make the future reports better! It’s a long one because it encompasses two interactions with the same girl.

I met this girl last summer; let’s refer to her as Megan. Megan, in my eyes is an HB7 – short, slim, long dark hair, flirty attitude with just a touch of narcissism.

I met her through a friend last summer and she came to my house warming party when I moved into my own place with some friends. The first night we met, we wound up hooking up and after that we hooked up randomly throughout the summer (just making out/ dry humping, not much more… only happened maybe 2 or 3times). This sort of died off when the school year began and we lost touch.

Fast forward to July 7th. I was at my friend’s house for a small get together and he was trying to find women to come hang out, but everyone he knew in the area was unavailable. We were sitting around, knocking back a few beers and shooting the shit, and I texted a few girls in my phonebook. Though I did not expect a response, being that it had been so long since we last talked, Megan answered quite quickly. I told her (did not ask her) to come to the party and to bring some friends along – she showed up an hour later.

While she was there I made sure not to attach myself to her, so I stayed on the pong table for a while. As this happened, I chatted up a tiny blonde girl there named Anna (HB8) who I had never met before then. The conversation progressed and I tried applying some light kino, hand on the small of her back or shoulder. She seemed receptive to this so eventually I told her that she would be my new pong partner, to which she enthusiastically agreed.

Before we got onto the table together, I suggested going outside for a smoke. She didn’t smoke but agreed to come out and get some fresh air while I poisoned my body with nicotine and tar. We were on the front porch of the house bullshitting about random crap (talking about her school, mine, our cars, common interests, etc…). I attempted to steer the conversation in a more suggestive direction, and tried applying more kino, but she seemed much less receptive than previously. After this, we got onto the pong table and her mood just became foul – I’m talking just incredibly negative and irritated. I had no idea if maybe I did something to cause it, or maybe she had something else going on that I did not know about. Regardless, I dismissed it and after the game I thought it would be best to focus my attention elsewhere.

For the rest of the night, I focused on having a good time with my friends. We did shots, played some card games, smoked a little weed, and just hung out. As the night was winding down, I’m walking to the front porch for another smoke and I see Megan. We make eye contact and I smile at her. She smiles back and doesn’t break eye contact. I motion to her to come have a cigarette with me, so she gets off the couch and walks over. At this point, I decide to grab her with one hand by the waist, pull her in close next to me, and walk outside. When I did it she smiled, laughed, and ran her hand up my thigh to my stomach. That was when I knew it was on. Once we stepped outside (isolate!!!) I made my move. I pushed her up against the wall, our eyes locked, and I went for the k-close. Her hands were everywhere, as were mine, but eventually we got interrupted by one of my drunken friends. No F-close this night, but she said that she wanted to hang out later that week. I told her I’d see if I could pencil her in, as I’m a very busy man. She laughed and told me, very flirtatiously, that I should “definitelyyy” make some time for her.

We texted back and forth occasionally during the next week, sending flirty messages, and when Friday rolled around I invited her and her friends over to a BBQ at my place. She eagerly said that she would come that night. I told her to show up around 8, and when she arrived we had already began grilling and drinking. She showed up wearing a sexy dark summer-type dress, but the real kicker was the thin, somewhat provocative choke collar she was wearing (not like emo or goth looking, just very simple, but sexy). There was a group of about 6 of my guy friends from work and school, as well as a few other women that had been invited over.

I played it the same as before, and did not give her much of my attention. I would talk with her for a couple of minutes and then remove myself from the conversation in order to mingle with the rest of the crowd. As the night progressed like this, I was having a great time; there was delicious food, great music, and excellent company. When I began to flirt with one of the other girls there (another HB 7), Megan came up and tried to vie for my attention (I’ve never had this happen before). I felt fucking awesome.

I excused myself from the conversation with the other HB7 and started escalating with Megan. I pulled her off to the side and started whispering in her ear that we should go find somewhere a little more private. After this I grabbed her hand and led her into the house away from everyone else.

Door. Locked.

Condoms. Ready.

Room. Presentable.

Manscaping. Neat.

I turned on the music, threw her onto the bed, and ate that pussy like it was my last meal. We fucked once, went back to the party, and then later did it again.

This was my first F-Close since finding Seddit! Though I knew she was already into me, there were plenty of opportunities where I could’ve fucked this situation up, and I like to think that learning from /r/Seduction allowed me to seal the deal.

Takeaways:

Always assume attraction, and act as such. Some girls, like Anna, won’t be receptive, and some, like Megan, will eat that shit up. It’s important not to get bummed out when a girl rejects you, but the overarching lesson is to remember that you’re going out to have a good time! Whether or not you get laid at that party shouldn’t determine whether or not your night was “successful”. I had a great time with my friends because I chose to be social and interact with everybody at these parties. Getting laid was an added bonus.

Also, I learned that if a girl is wearing a choke collar, she probably likes being choked in bed. God was that awesome.

TL;DR: Had sex.