So these are my experiences with 4 different Tinder girls. Would love feedback to hear where I could have gone better or what I did right! Thanks.

  1. We talked a little about of fitness before I said lets grab some food. Asked whether Sunday or Friday worked better. She said Sunday. Fast forward to today and I asked her whether she liked resturaunt A or resturaunt B. I got a response with "who is this?" I haven't responded and don't intend to.
  2. Had a great conversation with this girl for the past week going back forth. After the 3rd attempt to get her number, I simply said alright I'm moving on! Response "Alright, and good luck!" So dead end there right?
  3. Another girl just like girl #2 except we have been texting off tinder. After I assumed that girl #1 was dead in water. I asked her whether or not she was competitive (with putt putt in mind). Her response. "lol are you trying to ask me on a date?" I said call if what you want, no response there, Assuming thats gone.
  4. Girl #4 I went out with on Friday. We had a great time went to a baseball game, then bars at night and ended up going back to my place. It was a ton of fun at the time. Fast track to today and I think all she wanted to do was hook up, and nothing more than that. (I think) I am fine with that (all good fun) but I also am looking for something more than that.

I would love to hear back from the community on these. I think I did everything "by the book" I just want to hear from another point of view. Obviously the goal here is to get better at this, and simply being comfortable with myself. Self-Improvement is the key word here folks.