A little intro on myself...

I've been studying the Venusian Arts for about 4 years now...

I recently got a job at a Fortune 500 company as a Project Manager.

I'm pretty good, even REALLY good, and being able to sleep with women who I'm not attracted to or just barely attracted to...

I still have immense trouble controlling my inner game with beautiful women, which I suppose is normal.

Still get AA, but I just deal with it so much better...

Today, I usually just approach. I recognize when I'm making up excuses and try to live a balanced life of sorts.

I work 9-5 M-F in the city.

I'm pretty jacked, been bodybuilding as a hobby for like 2-3 years now. Already developed my own style, got my own place, keep it tidy. I can already approach beautiful women without any alcohol, totally sober.

I've already Lorded the Clubs and had 2 make outs in the same night, same club with 2 different girls. No big deal tho, not like I closed any of them. It's very easy for me to become the Lord, when I really want to.

I still have crushing anxiety and forces me to think hot chicks arent into me or think Im ugly or weird shit like that...

Last Night.

After finally cleaning up my apt, I left my place at around 11:30pm and got to Hoboken by midnight. I arrived at some bar named Black Beard or something... Who knows...

It was packed, a lot of hot chicks.

First thing I did is got ONE drink. All night, the most I had was two total, and I must say it def helped assist in ngaf.

Afterwards I just started to approach women.

It was mainly "club" game in this very loud environment.

I danced with a number of girls but nothing really surfaced from any of them.

Not entirely sure why. I know there are a billion different variables at play.

One of them being that the doc switched my meds so my behavior was def different today.

I laughed at all the rejections I got, it was amazing. Not once did I even feel pain. It was as if I had finally learned to let go of the outcome pretty much immediately, and smile regardless and sending ovr positive vibes regardless...

I ended up Lording the place, making friends with a lot of people.

Wasn't the best place to practice "low energy" talking game.

I rememeber also that I'm always relying on Direct Openers at these types of venues, when I think I should rely more on opinion openers, situational, indirect etc etc...

I've always avoided using Opinion Openers because the typical one is, "What drink is that?" or "I love this music!"... Well I guess those are more situational, but for me to actually ask them for their opinion on something I care about, something that can set me off into DHV mode, I'd have to first construct those openers before I go out, I think...

I avoid asking them what drink they have, because 99% of dudes do that... None of them stand out...

Didn't pull anyone or have that much more success with women sexually...

Hope my next FR will be a little more resourceful.

I did kiss one girl, but it was only a peck and then she bounced back to her friends or w/e. so i guess that one was done. Don't even remember her face tbh.

Things I did well

  • approached everyone

*approached hot girls

  • had good kino in my approaches

  • established social proof

  • established SOME pre selection

  • enjoyed myself and my drink

  • didn't peacock

  • didnt go home crying

Things I did poorly

  • Didn't "talk" much to any girls...

  • Didn't make many "verbal" openers

  • didn't attract women enough

  • lol foggetaboutqualifying even...

Things I want to Improve in the Next FR

  • Talking SLOWLY

  • Transitioning and DHVing

  • Opinion Openers

  • Qualifying/Isolation

  • Rapid Escalation

  • Closing a Dime