TL; DR: I joined seddit 2 weeks ago after a girl I was crazy about said LJBF. Seddit helped me move on, and I ended up hooking up with her friend that introduced us. Looking for some follow up tips to keep this girl coming back now.

Long Version: So I was introduced to Seddit just 2 weeks ago after a girl, HB8, I had oneitis for after just 2 weeks of dating said to me "Lets just be friends" Here was my first post... http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ittw0/off_like_a_light_switch/ I was introduced to that HB8 via a mutual friend, HB7.5, we had. Well HB7.5 was more of a friend of a friend in my case. However, since she set me up with HB8, we started hanging out more and we realized that we both had a good time hanging out in each others company.

So before I get into it, some things I've learned from Seddit that has really changed my mindset and my attitude. I used to be a date one girl at a time kind of guy, show her that I could be a good potential bf, blah blah blah... Occassionally that would work and I'd see a girl for a little while. In the past two weeks I've decided to create abundance and options. Hung out with my roommate and her friends last week, k-closed one of her friends. Knew a girl from back home that now works 9 blocks away from me in NYC, suggested we get drinks Wednesday after work, k-close. Both these girls keep texting me wanting to hang out. There are my options. Went out with OKC girl on Thursday night, didn't go well, no close...oh well can't win em all, brush your shoulders off and move on. Friday night F-close, heres the lead up and the story.

So HB8 who friendzoned me, texted me a week and a half ago, asking if I'd help her plan something for HB7.5s bday that was coming up. I texted her a crazy over the top party idea, asked her suggestions, she sent some back; but I cut off the convo saying I can't talk, lets meet for a drink Friday and discuss. She agreed. I know I'm probably a sucker for being roped into this as well.

Friday comes along, HB8 sends me a message to confirm if we're still on. Then an hour before the work day is over, she flakes, and says she and HB7.5 are hanging out later and they can meet up with me. Whatever. This is when I went out with my roommate and all of her friends. Was flirting with one of them (HB7), she was into it, I'm back and forth flirting and ignoring, pushing and pulling, its working well. Well we're all at one restaurant getting dinner when HB7.5 shoots me a text. "Hey, HB8 flaked on me as well, can I come meet up with you?" My dinner ends and I text her the bar we were going to. My roommate and her bf peaced out, so it was me and about 4 girls now, 3 of them at least HB7s. So HB7.5 meets up and sees me with a group of beautiful women, I said hello to her, but went back into the convos I was having, I'm looking in demand and valued. I was standing tall, talking to everyone, not leaning in, I felt good at this point, confidence was up. We all dance, I'm swinging them around, everyones having a good time.

We end up moving to another bar, and I finally corner HB7.5 to talk her up. We were trashing/disqualifying HB8 for a bit for being such a flake and always choosing whatever the most fun option is in her mind. I'm back and forth between HB7.5 and HB7, I had to keep HB7s interest up because that was the sure thing for the night. I get a text from HB8 a little after midnight "Hey I'm finally on my way out, where are you at" I show HB7.5 saying "look who it is" then I stare at HB7.5 right in the eyes and said "I'm not texting her back, she's not worth my time." I grew an inch taller in HB7.5s mind, I could see it in her eyes. 20 minutes later she gets a text as well. I do it again, look her right in the eyes and said "Don't appease that girl, don't text her back, you're hanging with me now." She complied, I'm really confident now. So we were chatting at the bar about how we've started hanging out more, etc... and it was just perfect for me to drop this line that I learned on seddit "I'm really happy that we're just friends" http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hjvs8/my_secret_that_has_been_perfect_55_in_getting/ It rolled off my tongue no problem and I kept the convo going naturally. Soon I'm talking about my plans for the weekend, shopping at this one high end place that I have a 70% off deal for, she suddenly wants to go shopping with me. I tell her well I'm going early because I'm going deep sea fishing with some friends that day, suddenly she wants to go deep sea fishing. I felt in control now. I end up k-closing HB7 later that night, and was walking out of the bar with her in arm, when I see HB8 come busting through the door with a mission written all over her face. She had to be pissed we ignored her, and she knew what bar I was originally hanging out at. No clue if she saw me with girl in tow, but I laughed. Ended up texting HB7.5 later that night about the run in, and we were talking back and forth for another hour before falling asleep

HB7.5 and I chatted a couple times in the past week and we organized a big bday dinner for her on Friday. First she wants me to meet her for Happies before the dinner, she lets me know where, and I decide to get a drink with another one of our female friends before rolling up and meeting her... this way I'm not coming alone, I don't want to stumble and show my hand at any point. One guy opens my set while at this bar, and I love that seddit has made me realize this and I'm able to analyze and learn from it as it happens. He sat down next to my friend at the bar, said something to get the convo going, 5 seconds later he's shaking my hand and introducing himself to me. Later on his buddy says to me "Which one of these is yours" Thinking on my toes, I can't pick HB7.5, because that would make it awkward between me and her. I'm not with either of them and I don't want to look like a bitch and say neither. So I put my arms around both girls and say "They're both with me" Everyone laughs, the guy calls me a pimp, and HB7.5 squeezes my side and giggles. So I got the kino going now, keeping it light at this point..long night to go.

We meet everyone else at dinner, and I decide to be the leader, order the appetizers, and choose the wine from the wine list. Asserting my status in the group. I catch her glancing at me subtly during dinner and lock eyes a couple times for a split second. She's playing her hand well here too and not giving too much.

After dinner we head to the bars and get some dancing going. I dance with my friend first, who knows all my sweet dance moves, so we look good on the floor and I heard HB7.5 make a "Wow" comment. So I go grab the birthday girl to dance. I tell her we gotta go slow so she can learn my moves, I'm swinging her around, she's loving it, then we move in closer. She starts grabbing my a$$ and touching me everywhere, I kiss her neck, she grabs me and kisses me. Then one of HB8s friends (HB8 was away and didn't make the dinner) decides to cut in and start dancing with the bday girl, trying to cock block. I shake it off and go talk to my friends and enjoy a drink...HB7.5 comes back for me, we're dancing and its really escalating. Buying temperature is up so I whisper in her ear "Lets get out of here"

Head back to my place 2 blocks away...f-close.

I feel good right now Seddit. Thank you. I still got things to work on like Approach Anxiety and opening random sets at bars. I'll get there.

Advice I'm looking for now, is what next with HB7.5? I shot her one text after our night together, since she had to get up early for work that next day and we were both still trashed, I just shot her a message a few hours later saying "I hope you made it in okay" She wrote back saying she feels like death and can't function at work. I'd like this girl to be a repeat hook-up. She's swamped at work all week, but we have another friend's bday next weekend, so that is when I'll likely see her next. Do I shoot her a message or 2 during the week, just asking how her Show is going (works in TV). I guess I'm just looking for follow up tips you guys have to keep this going.