I met this HB7, lets call her Amy, at a Superbowl party my friend threw at her house. Amy is the friend of the roommates. At the party we hit it off and so when she was leaving, I asked for her number. Through text we eventually set up a first date 3 days after.

Day of the date:

A few hours before, she texts

Amy: There is a yoga class at that time

Me : Should we change the time for dinner?

Amy : We can get dinner after if you want to go to yoga class. Its not that important to me I can always do yoga so if not we can meet at the regular scheduled time. ( I'm thinking I have no choice but to go)

Me: I would like to go to yoga. I need to work on my flexibility. Dinner afterwards sounds great.

And so we did yoga. Afterwards we met up at the dinner spot. It was a pizza place with beer on tap. I arrive early and grabbed myself a beer. When she arrived we both ordered and being the gentlemen that I am, paid for her pizza. We got to talking about beer and how she loves it. She's underage and so I would on occasion offer my glass to her when the employees weren't looking too hard. I offered to buy her some beer when we left the pizza place since she cannot do so herself. We walked across the street towards the liquor store. I took this opportunity to gracefully slide my hand into hers.

She replied "That was smooth!"

I was surprised by the reaction and not sure if it was a definite IOI.

Amy: I barely even know you.

Me: Well ask me anything you want

Amy: I don't know

Me: How about this. We go get this beer and drive to your place. You can ask me anything you want there.

Amy: okay

I was jumping up and down inside. I was golden, or so I thought

We walked into her place. It was a university owned apartment where she shares her room with another person. Her roommates are gone for the night and it seems it will be the two of us for a while (the planets are all aligning !). She wants to watch a movie and so I picked a documentary about Einstein. During the movie she got up and to grab another beer, I then placed my arm where she initially sat, so that when she finally sat back down, I had my arms across her shoulder. She responded again with a "you are smooth". It was time to escalate the kino and so I went to the bathroom and gathered my thoughts. A few seconds later I walked out of the bathroom, headed straight towards her, gave lots of eye contact, grabbed her chin and went in for the kiss. She kissed back!

I tried to go in for the tongue but she stopped me and continued watching the TV. She then said " You are lucky I go with the flow". That sentence right there took me from cloud 9 and right back to Earth. It was getting late and all evidence is pointing to me not getting laid tonight and thus I decided to leave. I grabbed my jacket and we kissed again. She gave another reply " You are funny" as she walked towards the door. The final farewell was a hug. Yeah a freakin hug. I went from making out to getting a hug to end the date. Days later her replies to my texts are short. She stopped responding when I proposed a second date.

Not sure what I did wrong here. It seemed everything was falling into place. Should I have initiated further with the kino? Gone for second base? Was her resistance just a shit test and she wanted to have sex? Or was I going to fast on a first date and completely turned her off.

Edit : I bumped into her a month later getting coffee. I waved hi to her, she waved back and we started talking. It was just small talk : how we were doing, what she is up to, etc. I made a comment about seeing her in the yoga class about a week ago and that I might see her again in yoga class. In retrospect it came off creepy and probably needy.