Background: I'm 5'8", have large ears, pretty skinny, baby face, but i personally think i'm attractive. I happen to be a Junior in college, and this school year I have opened up vastly; mostly due to gaining confidence and realizing I shouldn't care what people think because it really doesn't matter.

First one night F-close

Wenesday night is bar-night at my school so I'm a regular at this off-campus bar/ small night club. I normally go solo and see friends their so that's what I did. I was planning on trying to get with this girl who I recently saw again after meeting her last semester since she showed ioi's monday and appeared dtf. We'll call her A.

I first walk into the bar area and grab a pitcher for myself. I scope the area to see who is around and I see A with a group about 6-7 girls. A notices me and tells me to come over. We begin with light banter, and i throw in some playfulness by teasing her about the shirt she was wearing. I noticed that a girl from one of my previous classes was on the left side of the group. I introduce myself, and we talk for a tiny bit (we'll call her k).

One of the girls in the group pulled out her phone and displayed a picture of Michael Cera to the whole group ( constantly told i look like him). K laughs at me and agrees with her friend. I agree and amplify by saying "Sorry guys, I don't give autographs to everyone I meet.". The group laughed, and K went to request a beyonce song with her friend. I notice my friends, so i tell the group i'll be back later.

Later in the night, I see A again. I wanted to get some flirting in with her so i try to do so. She was trying to get me to feel bad for calling her a bitch jokingly monday night. I refuse to apologize and tell her we both know it was a joke. I honestly was not having fun with her, so I say "I don't associate myself with girls like you" (playful tone, and a nice smerk/smile afterwords) and began to walk away. She was like "fine". (display of non-neediness and not outcome dependent-You'll see why later)

Fast forward to closing- I managed to finagle myself onto a ciggarette. I do this socially when drinking. I walk onto the porch/smoking area and I see K there. I began chatting her up (asking about her major, job etc.--Was able to use her job as a source of entertainment/communication because a kid punched her and gave her a concussion) flirting with her, touching arms "accidentally". We finish our cigs and it's time to go. She mentions she wants to buy a pack-- I took this as an opportunity to pull more.

I lead her off the porch with my arm guiding her from behind her. My arm is still on her when we get the nearby parking lot when she suddenly takes my hand. From this point on I knew it was on and I had a pretty good chance if I play my cards right because of this ioi.

we walk for a good 6 minutes while we continue to talk and build rapport before reaching the store. I see this cute HB8 in the store I met at the bar a few weeks ago, and I greet her, showing some social value.

We leave the store and walk 5 more minutes until we get on the small quiet street that leads to my university. We are talking and towards the end of the street I knew it was do or die. I stop her, spin her around and go for a kiss. She complied happily, and we made out for a minute or so until I ended it. I lead her to the park bench to finish the cig. we were splitting. Once done, I pulled her back in and we made out for few more minutes. I then drop the "let's go hangout in my room". She agreed and we got back in my room and she said " I need to use the bathroom" --Often times when a girl says that she's really cleaning herself up before sex. She comes back and I start kissing her, and the rest is history.

I mentioned showing outcome dependence to A earlier. After the deed was done with K, I looked at my phone to see that A texted me saying "heyyy I was trying to tell you on the phone that I left" 50 minutes after calling me. She called me on the porch of the bar when I was with K but I couldn't hear her. I probably would have been able to F-close A if K did not come around. That is why its important to have fun, regardless of outcome.

Sorry for the long read guys! All questions, critiques, comments welcomed :)

tl;dr: Wasn't having fun with girl I knew I could have closed with. Saw girl I met earlier in the night and was able to close with her instead

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