I've been in a slump for maybe a month, just not going out at all. I've got my excuses for it, but it's weaksauce! So today I recruited a friend to help me to do something different: daygame!

I had tried by myself but it's so easy to NOT talk to a girl so I needed some social pressure. My friend's job was to point out a pretty girl and if I didn't go talk to her then I would give my friend a 20. Good motivation!

On the first approaches I would feel mad at my friend and at the whole world, just going ohfuckingshitfuckthissucksfuck in my head. This was exactly the reason why I needed my friend to be there. My opener was to say "hey you looked so cute I had to talk to you." My mind blanked out almost every time, so the interaction usually ended quickly, they either said right away that they are busy or they would say it later when I clearly had nothing to say.

Soon I started to have more fun, I didn't dread approaches at all, I didn't go blank. Now I started to have better reactions from girls. Some girls showed some actual interest but I didn't have those automatic responses of asking for a number etc, I was so focused on the approach. When I get used to daygame I think it's gonna be ok.

All in all, the stats are:

  • 4 girls just straight away didn't wanna talk to me. That's the worst it got. They would walk away and ignore me. Didn't bother me at all.

  • 4 girls didn't seem so interested but they were polite about it, some said a sincere thank you.

  • 2 girls showed interest right away, but I was too much in my head to do something about it. But it's cool, I'm here to learn, not to be perfect right away.

So I had 10 approaches down, I thought 10 was enough but then I saw a superhot girl walking by herself and I had to try.

Girl 11. This one really blew my mind. She was so hot and supercool. This was exactly the kind of girl I always dream about dating. I was just smitten, she didn't act like she was really attracted or anything, but her vibe was so calm and confident it was crazy, so we just had a nice chat. In the end she got my number, better than nothing. I don't know if she will call or not, I don't care so much about that, but if she calls then that's cool. But it blew my mind how easy it was to meet a girl like that and I feel like if hadn't been shitting my pants cause she was so amazing then it would have been ON, because she started asking about my plans for today etc. And it's not like I had to endure pain for this, even the worst rejections didn't feel bad I don't beat myself up because of them. I don't beat myself up for not escalating either, I take the lesson but I only focus on the positive, I'm not playing a scenario in my head like what if I did this or that would she be riding my dick now, because that's pointless. Doing daygame felt a little exhausting because of adrenaline but I feel 100% good about every approach I did. And I knew I wouldn't feel bad, but for some reason doing daygame used to feel so difficult for me. Once again the only block was in my head.

Onwards :)