Hey all, just by reading this I got confidence! Let me say this that never in my life have I approached a girl ever, everyone I've ever dated, hookedup with, etc. has either come to me or set it up through a friend etc.

1) Eye contact: Been trying this more, even at work someone I never ever ever talk to i did this and they were just like "Hey [ceedubbs]!"

2) Get Rejected and not care: Friday night I met this amazing little red head...we were talking for a good bit she seemed really into it, then all of a sudden she seemed to get the "gotta go to my friends" thing. I'm sure I could have attempted to stop this better...but I didn't. She was then sitting at a table somewhere with a group. A couple minutes later I decided I wasn't gonna let it slide that easy, so I went up to the table and said to her lets go upstairs and dance..she declined...but I feel that is important..because I didn't care. I feel like I even need more rejections and it will help even more!

3)Turn Around a handshake; Met another redhead (i love them) and her friend at a bar last night. My friend talked them up before I came in. They were introducing themselves and trying to shake my hand. I got super serious and stiff, trying to sound all "matter of factly" and go "Oh well hello, this is very official nice to meet you" or some shit like that. The one I liked said "Well okay I can give you a hug then!" I felt like this worked great! :)

I feel like these small and minuscule things are milestones for me personally! Just wanted to share!