Before I say anything more I'll link to the question at hand.

Now, since then 3 months have passed. We still dance together regularly and go out. I've accepted that nothing will come from this, moved on, had a short relationsship with a girl inbetween. I just played it cool. I didn't put her on a pedastal, called her out on shit she had done, points she was wrong (dancing related mostly).

In these 3 months I lost considerable weight (25 pounds). I improved my organizing skills, kept a tidy home and overall grew as a person I think. I much more know noe, where my strengths and my weaknesses are and I know much more about my personality type.

Saturday was Big Lebowski day. Having never watched that movie, she kinda forced that on me, complete with White Russian. We cooked beforehand and went shopping for everything. We had Saté chicken with pan fried vegetables (actually that is dietary food for me).

None of her friends could make it and neither of mine could either, so it was just us two.

We sat on my big couch, or lets say we slumped, because that fucker is so big there is no other possible way than to slouch on that thing. There is space for 3 more people, still she comes pretty close to me. Something is off, she doesn't behave that way normally.

We get through big lebowski, and I suggest the new Tron as the next movie, because Jeff Bridges voice is sexy and Tron on full hd bluray with surround is sexy aswell.

Still more than average body contact which I kind of enforce. After the movie we get into talking. Deep stuff actually. Family, relationsships, personality types. All that brainy stuff im quite good at, its not the first time girls fall for me that way. I think its because, not only can I formulate an opinion, I accepts the others, call them out on logical fallacies and I am quite good read. The fact that I had Sun tzu in the Bathroom, machiavelli, von clausewitz and homers illiad and odysee lying around added to that. Not only that, but I get passionate about certain topics. Call me a sucker but the Carl Sagan series and the new video of NDGT calling for more space exploration are important to me. All the while I let occasional things drop like, I like her perfume (which I did) and her hairdo.

We talk, for the first time about her beauty. She has a gorgeous body, slender, model looks (she is 3 cms shorter than me) and fucking pretty face, blonde hair. I let her know that I thought of her as shallow the first time we met, because she looks good, so there can't be much behind that. I tell her, that I don't call her out on her looks, because she is smart. She knows what she looks like. I would give her no benefit in saying that, and that it might reduce our partnership.

We talk till 6 oclock. Then I offer, she can sleep here if she wants. I get out my additional sheets and then just put them on the couch. I put myself under there aswell saying "but I sleep here now". She takes the chance and lies in my arm cuddling. Things get taken up a notch (no kiss yet) she stops it then mumbling something about relationsship and not screwing up. At this point im pretty tired and flushed from the alc and said "screw it, tomorrow will be good aswell". She falls asleep in my arms.

Next morning I wake up early, take a shower and start cleaning the kitchen. To make things short, some talking, then I touch her hip and look her in the eyes. She falls into an awkward hug all the while explaining that she has some sort of on-off thing going with some guy in bukarest (I knew about that, but she didn't know I knew). Ok so that was that all about the night before.

But still she lingers around. I offer we take a stroll around the park nearby. We sit down on a park bench, I wrap my arm around her, she cuddles and accepts. We talk more, get up and I take her hand. We walk more, I could feel there was more to this. We get to her Bus stop. I take the chance, still holding hands, touching her face looking her in the eyes. It was that moment, moved in, kiss. Bus comes. She excuses herself. We will see each other tonight again for dancing.

Sorry for the long winded post. I needed to write this down for anonymous people to read it, because bragging that I kclosed an exmodel is not something you do irl. This is a to whom it may concern post.

*TL;DR Followup on Dancepartner problem on Askseddit. Video evening, us two on the couch, talking through the night, cuddling together, stroll in the park, kclose at the busstop, will see her tonight*