[FR] kino and a question or two

cheddarchexmix · 2010-12-11T22:06:01+00:00

I was also astounded by how well kino works, I was pretty much totally oblivious to how much women use it before I read PUA literature.

One thing I did to improve my game that isn't covered in the literature very much is that I often get phone numbers of people I'm not picking up - random guys or couples who I want to hang out with, mostly. It makes you more comfortable with getting girls' numbers, and you make friends while doing it.

RenegadeDoppelganger · 2010-12-11T23:11:29+00:00

Being the person in charge of a table of beautiful women is already a position of power and a huge advantage. Most waiters and waitresses I encounter are complete 'naturals' in that they demonstrate most PUA principles extremely well and absurdly often. Why do you think so many guys think the cute waitress or bartender is hitting on them?

Look at it this way, every table is set. Every checkup, an approach. You're regularly interacting with more people than most of us could realistically approach anywhere else. You are instantly the focus of attention whenever you walk by. People ask your opinion or advice constantly and its pretty much in your job description to strike up conversations with complete strangers. Best of all, your can be directly measured by your tips. It is possibly one of the most enviable positions from a PUA standpoint

However.. I think not interacting with your peers more is a mistake because thats almost instant social proof. No need to pickup the girls but certainly demonstrating that you're good friends with some attractive ladies is not going to hurt your chances (cat string theory).

Other than that, seriously devour as much quality PUA matierial as you can get your hands on. You've probably got one of the best opportunities to put all this stuff into play. You're already in an amazing position, if you want to take it even further I suggest you challenge yourself. Resolve to get x numbers a night or x amount in tips, obviously the tips challenge can be volatile and Im sure you understand but you get the idea. Resolve to do something that will test your skills and be a real challenge in what is already a pretty comfortable situation. That way you wont feel at a disadvantage approaching girls outside of work when you dont have that instant attention grabbing presence or social proof.

A bunch of us on seddit have actually been trying to figure out how to interact properly with waitresses and service staff in general. Your expertise on this matter would be greatly appreciated here

chumpta · 2010-12-13T23:20:48+00:00

I've been one of those AFC's that discovers all the PUA material and uses studying to put off actually getting out and doing anything

i think a lot of us can relate.

I started kinoing everybody.

it's funny how you think everybody would be creeped out by this, but it winds up not being the case. as long as your touches are incidental and youre not thinking about them too much, anyone who is creeped out by it is most likely creepy themselves (or someone you wouldn't really like for some other reason).

pats on the back rule

Title	[FR] kino and a question or two
Author	casinoemployee
Upvotes	1
Comments	8
Date	December 11, 2010 9:09 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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