disclosure: I unlied
I was partying with friends on Saturday. I made eye contact with a pretty girl, smiled and thought nothing of it. two minutes later she comes up to me says "hi, my name is Katie (not actually)" so we have a little conversation, kind of interview mode but whatever (gotta work on it). She's 28... fuck I'm 22. I lie and tell her I'm 24. she's not phased. I get her number in the middle of our conversation and kiss her lightly. Her friend comes after a bit and they are leaving so I say "hold up, come here" I kiss her again and say "have a nice night" texted her i "Nice to meet you. I'll see you soon". Next day I text her and say "Hey Katie, We're hanging out on Tuesday. Meet me at "Joe's bar"" and she says "ok sounds good, sir" we chat for a bit then I end the convo with see you tuesday!
Tuesday comes along we're hanging out having a good time and she goes and you're 24 right (innocent question, not a shit test. I forget how it came up but it was relevant)? I panic and say "so I have a little confession" and she goes "oh god you're 23" so I pull her close, kiss her and say "Nope... 22" and she says "oh no, you're a kid!" and I say "Yeah but you like it" with a little smile and kiss her again. We immediately change subjects, got to know each other more and had a great conversation with the guy next to us about his wife and relationships. While this was happening my attention was fully on him except for pulling her closer (she was standing to talk to him) and putting my arm around her. She reciprocated by putting her hand on my leg and kind of secretly sensually caressing it... Liked it. after I finish my drink and I'm over talking to this guy I say "nice to meet you man, hope everything works out with the wife." turn to her and say "I live a few blocks away, wanna come over?" she says "yeah, let's check out your place". So we get to my place. my roommates are there and she handles them very well (they really liked her) after a bit I say "come to my room so we can make out a bit before I kick you out" she rolls her eyes and hits me but comes to my room nonetheless. good times were had by all. This girl was very assertive with what she wanted in bed, it was kind of a dominance battle which was cool (is this an age thing? because it was definitely said as we were hooking up)
After good times are had we're talking and she goes "it's really sexy that your first text to me was a plan to hang out" and I say "I don't like texting much and I prefer to get to know each other in in real life." I take her to her car and kiss her goodbye.
now the holidays are coming up and I'll be gone till the fifth of january so it may fizzle. anyone know of a good way to make to keep the attraction in between now and the holidays? This is always a problem for me and my friends.
The age difference was referenced a few times but I tried to keep it at a minimum. We teased each other about it and it may be something to overcome in the future. things like
"you're a child"
"a child you want to have sex with"
"a 22 year old child yes"
she also mentioned that I lied (in a lighthearted tone) to my roommates conversation, and they laughed about it and told her "yeah he told us. He said he was going to confess when you brought it up" and she just giggled a bit.
Any advice you guys have is welcome. I'm pretty good with women but by no means an expert (I struggle with AA, like most of us do).
Let me know how I could have made this FR better
TL;DR I'm 22, met a cute 28 year old, lied about my age twice. things worked out. Need help with having attraction not fizzle out because I won't see her till at least jan 5. probs later than that.
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