I haven't been on a real date since my ex left me over a year ago. I was a nervous, needy, NG who really couldn't get over it.

I found Seddit, read the FAQs and started to branch out. Met a girl online, asked her out to a coffee shop and ended up talking for 5 hours straight about absolutely nothing and everything. Tried to be cocky but funny and came off pretty well. Ended up telling her I liked her and thought I broke every single Seddit rule out there and became friendzoned. Turns out she enjoyed the repertoire and we went on a 2nd date.

We sat down for a theater play and it seemed like I was friendzoned until I realized how easy it was to put kino on her. Made out in front of her dorm room afterwards but she said she had a 3rd date rule. I made fun of her here and ended up closing with a 3rd date in mind, a simple walk along the banks of the nearby river.

Last night I took her out to the banks and instead of a walk, surprised her with an easy wine and snacks picnic kind of deal at night with candle light overlooking the river. Got the kino going, got the conversation going, poured her some wine and escalated it. We got caught in the rain and I ran her back to her dorm. Being wet made it easy to get naked and the witty comebacks and jokes were everywhere. The talking never stopped and I guess I chose the right times to do the DGAF attitude and it made her want me more.

Thank you seddit for showing me how to be a kind guy rather than a NG. To everyone else who doesn't just want to fuck women but would want to build a relationship, dont count yourself out yet, close dates with an idea on when to meet again at least for the first 3 or 4 dates or else she can easily drop you. If you tease them, come of cocky but funny and honestly seem interested in her than just her tits, I think you'll find good results.

Good Luck and thanks!