Note: Bullet-point notes for record purposes.

Context: At night club outside with decent sized dance floor. Few drinks however maintained conscious note to “not get smashed”.

Girl #1:
Approach:

  • Girl “alone” on the dance floor outside Attempted to use canned opening from Krauser PUA (history of satisfactory success): “Hey, can I tell you something? My friends and I were just over there and we spotted you in the crowd... etc etc” - in short the opener was to give a compliment and then tease her about something else.

Result:

  • Failed.
  • Got anxious. I believe I spewed a sentence that made sense but for certain I did not have calm frame. Got too anxious - felt like the opener was too long.
  • Also had boyfriend - did not realize she was with other people at the time. Introduced myself to BF, complimented him on his GF (said she was cute) and excused myself.

Action: Need to learn to slow the fuck down.

Girl #2/3:
Approach:

  • Friend saw HB8 and went to open set. I wing-manned the HB6. Opened with “Hey you look like you could use a pair of sick shades” (Had $10 plastic glasses that flashed colors)

Result:

  • Moderate success.
  • HB6 & HB8 responded well - I managed to distract HB6 well. HB6 conversation flowed better. She tried on shades & we entertained ourselves how cool/fun they were. Made to “Transition” phase - good results. Dropped a DHV on how I can fly airplanes. I got very good body vibe from her - probably could have K-close within 30 min of meeting her however I had zero attraction. Need to work on getting into qualifying girl.
  • Somehow buddy and I switched girls. I was now talking to HB8 and buddy went for HB6. Used same opener “You need to try on these cool shades” - she loved it. “Transition” phase was weak however HB8 dropped a nice IOI - played with her hair & gave a cute/innocent smile when I maintained confident eye contact. Seemed like she had trouble looking into my eyes. Got cold feet - felt like “This is going to good to be true.”

Action:

  • Again, need to work on slowing down.
  • Qualify the girl too (e.g. “So what makes you interesting?” or something).
  • Isolating the girl a bit would help. It felt like attempting to escalate kino next to buddy and other HB would have been awkward. Isolate to have “our own world” experience.

Girl #4/5/6...
Don’t know how many I really approached but below was done separately. Just same approach.

Approach:

  • Typically busy walking from one place to another. HB would be walking next to me. Made solid eye contact - used same approach “You need to try these shades on. You will love them.”. HB would try glasses on while we’re walking. Would leave the set immediately afterwards with “You know.... you’re kind of cute.” with a grin.

Result:

  • Got good results - lots of smiles would follow. Set lasted short however I was walking with an agenda (e.g. looking for friends). Sometimes a “soft” direct comment doesn’t hurt.

Action:

  • I could have made HB stop and continued set.
  • Not sure but I might have been treating these as just “warm-up” sets.

Girl #7

Same approach with shades. Only memorable note:

HB8 “Can I try those on??”
Me: “Only if you give me a kiss on the cheek.”
HB8 kisses cheek
HB8: So I’m going to keep them now.
Me: What? No way.
HB8: You said I could have them.

Result: Diffused but where the fuck was my head???

FOR NEXT TIME:

  • Slow/calm down
  • Keep thoughts collected - several approaches were made where mind felt scattered. Just spewed sentences out and frame was lost.
  • Start qualifying - come up with few canned qualifiers.
  • Isolate