I approached a girl the other day, and she happened to be friends with one I worked with.

The next day, her friend asks if I think she's cute, because she talked about me all day.

I went and approached her again, had an insta date, started to build a connection, got her number, over about an hour, and she told me to meet her again at the same place this weekend.

I could have done these things better:

  • Set up a date where I handled logistics on the spot, I actually asked her when she was free next week and she said she was extremely busy with school/work, but I think I lost my frame when she told me that, I still brought it up a few times, at high points, where she was laughing, but we couldn't come to an agreement where to go. But she said she'd like to talk again Saturday and gave me her number.
  • Had a better sexual vibe, I touched her once, which was when I left, and did two or so sexual frames

Things I'm impressed I did well with:

  • Pretty much throwing a huge direct opener in at the beginning to start the insta date
  • Got her to comply and sit next to me and talk, very personal for only just starting to talk

The insta date was definitely a catch off guard, because my frame was to let her know I thought she was cute and set up a date where I handled but it went well, she showed IOI, laughed a lot, etc. It just wasn't a convenient place to get intimate.

I don't like giving ratings because I start to put girls on pedestals when I do so, so I will tell you she is "very pretty" Brunette, model body but slightly shorter <6', brown eyes