When I arrived at the bar I went to get a drink. A girl I have talked to once stops me and says "once you get that drink, come back and talk to me". Weird, the first time I talked to her (2 weeks ago) she came and opened me, second time she was very cold, this time she again opens me. I return and there are two guys talking to her - one AFC and the other acting alpha. She is friendly with the guy acting alpha but also very flirty with me. Lots of kino and laughing. But a few times I am talking with her I see her glance at the other dude. We're about equal alpha but he is better looking. It is a hard one to call. I think she is interested in us both but he's definitely got the edge. There are very few women at the bar and no sets to open so I have no real option but to stick in that set.
A new woman appears and she is pretty but has a negative confidence like an older woman (early 30's) who has spent her whole life being hit on. I get her chatting and she is giving me kino like it is her job. Almost like she is going through the motions. I have quite a good conversation with her but I can tell she is going to keep it friendly.
Guys are coming up and hitting on the first girl with regularity. She is not a normal girl though - she does not react to attention. She comes back to our group and splits her attention between me and the other alpha dude. I'm getting more kino and he's getting more glances. I wonder if she is trying to make him a bit jealous using me. I tease her quite well and make her laugh and touch me. Lots of eye contact. She acts like she is very comfortable with me - she acts uncomfortably around almost everyone else. I'm feeling like I'm veering towards friend-zone with her.
End of the night I get the second woman's attention to say goodbye. She's the center of attention for 3 other guys now. I tease her, get her laughing, I knock her off her game and I am in control and she knows it. She stammers asking what days I come to the bar. Writing it now it sounds like a good time to #-close but she had "flake" written all over her face. Felt good to have that control over her though - she's a strong woman. I say good night to the first girl next and exit.
Come back home and my roommate has a friend visiting. She is really cute. I open her, let her finish watching the TV program she is interested in and once it is over I sit next to her. We get into a really good conversation. But she drops the "boyfriend" subtle hint about 5 minutes in. Doesn't mention him again and she is throwing me quite nice IOI's. She is tossing her hair, lots of eye contact with dilated pupils, excitedly asking and answering questions. But, boyfriend so I don't bother escalating (last thing I want is to piss-off my roommate).
That's all folks.
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