So I broke up with my gf about 3 months ago (first gf, 1.5 years, I'm M21 atm), and I've been seeing this chick super loosely for the past 2 months (like 3 times). She's into me but I just want to take things slow for personal reasons. We ended up going to the bar and talking for a few hours, before I asked her to come home with me. She said she would and we ended up fucking.

She spent the night, but how do you proceed the next morning? We both had work early, so we woke up at the same time, I jumped into the shower while she got ready. She called herself an uber but I needed to walk her to the gate (apartment complex, a bit of security to get in/out).

What the fuck do you do when saying goodbye? I left our 2nd date w/o kissing her (she said she didn't like PDA after I went for it the first time, and I ended up just being a pussy and not going for it again), and told her I wasn't going to make that mistake again, so I kissed her and she jumped into her uber.

Been like two weeks and we made plans for last Friday (28/6), but she cancelled last minute. Told her to hmu when she's free next and we'll sort something out.

New to dating and shit, my first relationship had red-flags I missed off the start (looking back) and I want to make sure I'm doing everything "correct".

Thanks again boys.