Disclaimer: I'm a straight girl. This is what it looks like from the other side, guys ;)

Went out to cafe to see friend perform. Saw a guy I'd met once before, he'd be an equivalent to HB7 in your world I guess, since I wasn't falling over for him but I thought he was kinda cute. I would definitely k-close him but I wasn't sure if I'd f-close him. Decided to let him try his game out & see where it went, so I sat next to him and said hi and we watched the show together and chatted a bit.

At one point he leaned in to whisper something in my ear and kind of stuck his face in my hair (in a good way I mean), I believe this is what you call "kino"? This is a good reason to go to music shows - it's loud, so you have to get really close to people's ears to talk to them. He did this a couple more times over the next half hour, and bumped his leg against my leg sometimes. You would be surprised how effective the leg-bump is, I remember leg-bumps for years if they are delivered by a guy I'm into. My first thought when a guy bumps my leg is "this dude wants to bang me" and I'm not kidding when I type that.

When the show was over we made quick plans to meet up later at a bar. Later arrived, we met up at the bar with some of my friends and some of his friends. He made a lot of eye contact and put his hand on my back a couple of times so I figured he was still into it. At the end of the evening my friends were going to go out dancing but I decided to stay and chat with him. I went to the bathroom and when I got back his friends had left too so it was just us. Suspicious, but I was still into it.

Shortly after the great friend exodus, he suggested we go somewhere quieter to talk. So I said sure. Once we got outside the bar he suggested we drive to the nearby waterfront, and walk out on the pier. This sounded lovely so I said sure, and we drove to the pier.

We walked out on the pier talking shit and joking around, it was a 20 minute walk to get to the end of the pier. He talked about himself a lot, general Bay Area dude banter bla bla bla Burning Man changed my life, etc. He put his arm around me and I let him keep it there. We got to the end of the pier and kept on talking and he kind of slid up behind me and started kissing me on the neck. I made out with him for about 20 minutes but I think I'd lost interest on the long walk out to the pier cause the talk wasn't hooking me at all. He started going for tits/ass but I wasn't really feeling it anymore. I said I was cold and wanted to head back.

We walked back to the car and he made a couple more attempts - he kinda grabbed me by the back of the head and tried half-heartedly pulling my head down, I think he was trying to get me to give him a blow job - maybe he didn't realize I was over it? I said I was getting tired and was ready to head back. We drove back.

Basically I think the long walk out to the end of the pier killed it - it was cold, I had to listen to a lot of bullshit talk on the way out. If he'd been funnier, or maybe if he'd let me get a couple of words in, I might have been into it. And I might, might, might have given him another chance if not for the head-grabbing in the car. That pretty much killed it for me. I can't speak for all girldom, but head-grabbing is a dealbreaker. He called the next day but I didn't answer and didn't call him back.

On to the next one :/

TL;DR: If your talk game isn't up to par, don't take girls out for long cold walks on piers. If you're trying to make a last-minute save, make sure you have more tricks in your bag than "grab her by the back of the head"