friendzone help

HaloLASO · 2016-12-18T05:03:36+00:00

Time to move on before your downward spiral gets worse. She's not into you.

monkeyman114 · 2016-12-18T05:14:48+00:00

You can either be harmless or be a sexual challenge to her. A girl can pick up this vibe...you're either a soft friendly puppy or a guy that sees her as not a potential friend but a sexual partner. Getting out of the friend zone is impossible but it seems like you want to try, so do this. 1) become unavailable - you are no longer at her beck and call 2) Be fun outside of her social circle - again, have her outside staring in 3) Be busy - Don't be mean, just make her recognize you're an exciting interesting person that she wants to get involved in. Just make sure she's excluded from it and has to pay an interest toll to get in.

Watch the show "Family Ties". Skippy was obsessed with Mallory, but one episode Skippy suddenly stopped asking her out, she did a 180 degree turn and got interested in Skippy...she was also infuriated that his attention for her stopped and she wanted to know why.

aminl · 2016-12-18T03:58:23+00:00

You don't know why you want to have sex with her? Why is it just her, can you focus on other women?

Ray-Ray_Jackson · 2016-12-18T13:22:16+00:00

Sounds like she is using you to fill the emotional boyfriend role, while she sleeps with people she is sexually attracted to. Happened to me a lot when i was younger, because I was taught to respect women, be polite, and sweet. All of the things a boyfriend would do.

The issue is that when you give them all of those things, you're now a friend, because you never crossed from emotionally invested to sexually stimulating for her.

I would recommend either following the other advice here, (be busy when she starts wanting things) or just go all in with the "naked man"move. It's weird, it's risky, but you will immediately know where she stands. She will laugh a little, but if anything more than friends has a chance of happening, you will know. Or you will lose the friendship and she will tell her girlfriends about it.

It has worked for me one out of two times though.

MindsEvolve · 2016-12-18T16:02:31+00:00

It takes time to build up your sexual attractiveness, especially if you are starting from basically no prior sexual experiences. It doesn't just appear out of thin air. You have to build up your self belief, work on your self-care, appearance etc. There might even be one thing you can do right now to make a big difference in your self / outward image, but it's tough to say because you're asking a bunch of people who can't see you and know nothing about you. If you want to PM me and tell me a little bit about yourself, I can try to identify your main sticking points. I'm happy to help.

backintheddr · 2016-12-19T16:56:10+00:00

Well you said it yourself, You've mentioned this girl fucks everyone but you? If she's getting action easily and you're her friend, why on earth would she fuck you and ruin the friendship? She doesn't want to talk about it because you're making her uncomfortable. You need to start working on making yourself a better person, if you're overweight then start running and hitting the gym, if you're stupid then start reading (I don't know if English is your first language but your writing isn't very articulate, women like a man who can articulate well) if you're boring then get hobbies and learn to tell an interesting story. Be socially mobile, it sounds like you've lost this battle and I don't blame her. Accept the defeat and work on yourself in general to be victorious next time.

Ray-Ray_Jackson · 2016-12-19T18:27:09+00:00

I don't just think it would work, but have gotten a 50% success rate. *results may vary

Title	friendzone help
Author	TheGemLeo
Upvotes	1
Comments	17
Date	December 18, 2016 3:37 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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