Hi everyone! Shout out to the community, you know what works. In the two weeks since I started applying concepts, I've f-closed a girl I met the day before, k-closed a girl last night and have otherwise been noticing a lot more IOI's from one girl I was already seeing. All three are likely to be FWB/casual girlfriends going forward. And I'm not done yet. Newbies, listen to the masters.
Here's the FR: I had an awesome party weekend and learned some lessons on getting tooled by AMOGs, being more aggressive with Kino and honestly just had a really good time. I also learned a couple lessons on getting women to deal with their annoying, married, sharpee-wielding drunk friends (I suspect if she'd been unmarried I would have gone for a caveman kiss so I could steal the pen). Here is where I would like advice.
I am dancing with a girl I know from an art class and haven't seen in three months. This is our first time out together and I've already k-closed after lots of dirty dancing.
First question: Random AMOG grabs my jacket off the wall shelf, I casually grab it and tell him it's mine. We discuss ownership and he decides that either I'm right (honest mistake) or that I'll definitely fight him for it (if he's trying to steal a random jacket in hopes of finding a wallet). I'm cool, assertive, dominant, and then dismissive once he tries to apologize and leave. I physically turn my back and block him away from my girl and continue dancing.
My question is: In situations like this, is it better to be as generous and friendly about the "mistake" as possible, or do you think I did the right thing by cold-shouldering him?
I ended up hitting ASD after getting her to my place but we chatted and made out for an our or two. Any articles or thoughts on overcoming ASD would be appreciated.
For context: We were both on the couch, I had my hands everywhere but the front of the bikini areas, kissing occasionally, her in my lap. Clothes on, though I did get her to show me her ink. She just kept breaking contact. She didn't look nervous or afraid. She told me "I would stay and entertain you longer but I don't want you to think I'm easy," when she was leaving.
Thanks, keep sargeing.
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