Hi! Been reading articles, thought I would submit a narrative of my evening and ask for pointers. Also, here is my OKC profile, suggestions welcome: http://www.okcupid.com/profile/mazier?cf=regular
Tonight' outfit was red kilt and black t-shirt over white hooded long sleeve. Military black boots.
5:30 PM: Meet up with pastor and friends at (Chain Restaurant). Tap cute female greeter on the elbow as I notice my party is already at their table and tell her I'm meeting friends. Intentionally Kino everyone I speak with on the way to my seat. Repeatedly touch anyone I can reach while making conversation. They're adopted family and easy practice. Bored. Half entranced by TV's showing commercials and sports events I don't care about. Order an appetizer and chill until everyone finishes eating.
7PM: Everyone leaves the restaurant, I tap same greeter on the elbow and say "thanks, have a good night." Go home and wait for the phone call regarding the next stop.
8:11 PM: Pastor texts me, tells me they're headed for the Casino. I finish screwing around and changing, drive over. On the way, text married couple I know and my brother+his GF to tell them where to meet me. All of them beg out of casino but promise to meet up later.
8:30 PM: Arrive at casino. Meet up with mostly same group as at (CHAIN RESTAURANT) and Kino everyone again by intention. We wander around. Friend and his recently official girlfriend want to explore resort, I lead them around and run into another female friend and her BF, kino her and handshake BF in greeting.
9:11 PM: Get bored, say goodbye, Kino everyone when I leave and peace out.
9:30 PM: Arrive at bar, meet friend and his GF, again intentionally make physical contact with both upon greeting. Snag a table and sign up for karaoke. Look around, see no interesting prospects. I wait for the place to liven up and chat with my friends.
10:00 PM-12AM: I begin drinking and lose track of exact timing. Married couple friends and brother/GF show up. I talk repeatedly with HB5-6 because she's into the kilt. She attempts to take pictures. I pose but do not help with exposing what's underneath. Her female friend makes half-assed attempts to pull up the kilt and make me flash people. She is not committed so I do not cooperate. I notice cute girl walk in with blue dress and tan sweater. I make eye contact. Two songs later I approach, place my hand between her shoulders and say her dress makes her stand out, then walk away. Continue BSing with friends and enjoying Karaoke. I get one entire table to sing backup for their friend (who is singing "Total Eclipse of the Heart") because everyone is being a pussy and not helping. Repeated eye contact with cute blond in a Northface jacket who is bottled in a corner with no easy access. Look around and notice the blue dress girl has vanished and I cannot reapproach (I recognize that I screwed up her, I made eye contact with her twice after initial opener and did not re-approach). I attract the HB8 waitress' attention every time I can with an upper arm tap, in addition to a similar kino whenever I pass her in the crowded aisle while ordering.
12:30 AM: I leave with the married couple friends. Wander to nearby dance club and run into HB8 walking her dog. I spend about 6 minutes chatting with her, playing with her dog and number close. She's from out of town.
12:40 AM: Get to new club, order a shot. Continue with intentional Kino on my married couple friends. Not because I'm trying to get into bed with them, just practicing. Dance with her, he chills at the table. He's fucking awesome and buys me a shot. She leaves to go back to the table, I dance with a lesbian couple. I try to dance with a straight-looking girl who is with a group on the dance floor, but she's sober and turns me down. I keep dancing with lesbian couple because they're fun. I text dog-walker girl with "This is name, this girl just gave me her number, she must be some kind of stalker. What do I do?" No response. Yet.
1:45 AM: I go home. On my way to the car, someone starts honking from a parking lot. I walk right off the sidewalk and approach the car. I have a 10 minute conversation about why I'm wearing a bright red kilt with HB5 I'm not interested in. High-five a male passerbye who also admires the kilt.
2:15 AM: Arrive home, immediatly get on Seddit.
PEACH me please.
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