Frustrated and confused

chenleh · 2016-06-07T06:37:31+00:00

Dude, you're 18. It's fine. Calm down, be patient, the world is so much bigger than where you are now. There are SO many more girls out there than those in your school. I remember being in High School and having a similar situation happen. All the girls I wanted were taken, and I couldn't seem to talk to any of the ones I was attracted to. Yeah, it was fucking hard, but honestly looking back, most of those girls I was attracted to were actually pretty toxic people and I'm so grateful I didn't get involved with them. Stay focused on things that help you become more of who you are, and the right person will come along without you 'trying' to find them. Girlfriends that feel really good to be with are not people you have to 'try' with or put on a show for. When it clicks, it clicks, and if it doesn't, it doesn't. Keep talking to them, keep reaching out, keep making the effort but don't let them have your soul. Don't let their rejection mean anything about who you are or whether or not you'll actually ever 'get a girl.' Your value is something that you meet inside yourself. Women don't want a man that surrounds himself with what he sees as valuable based on his ideas of what that means, they want a man that creates value because he knows what it is for himself.. because he innately knows his own value regardless of what those around him think.

zombiexmatt · 2016-06-07T01:47:32+00:00

Biggest thing in my personal experience that I find helps is confidence. Bitches love confidence.... And assholes.

Aeon199 · 2016-06-07T05:23:10+00:00

Do you think if you had an average IQ, you would not have any way to attract women? I wonder if you are implying that since you mentioned your "high IQ." Most guys with Asperger's have an IQ in the average range.

thebizkid84 · 2016-06-07T14:43:13+00:00

My dad use to tell me there are three things you should never talk to women about, religion, politics, and sports. Well, women have come a long way in liking sports, but you get the point. That's great you have an interest in politics, but that's not going to score many babes. You got to talk about topics that are appealing to women, entertainment and gossip are big ones. Also, women like to talk about themselves. Get a woman to do that, and your in. Plus, loosen your body language a little bit. You're probably showing fear from a mile away.

Title	Frustrated and confused
Author	henker220
Upvotes	0
Comments	7
Date	June 7, 2016 12:03 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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