Hot girls intimidate me

Supergaz · 2016-07-28T19:25:28+00:00

Hmm, I am very new to dealing with this myself, but here goes. You have to do you, I know it sounds cliché, but if you do your hobbies and don't feel bad about yourself then that would help not feeling out of "their league". Also always remember that they are also human! They eat, they sleep, they think, they feel, they worry, they go to the toilet, they get horny etc. etc.

Difference between good looking woman and not good looking woman in this regard is that good looking woman have many options, and so there is some competition if you want to do them

MrsP10213 · 2016-07-28T20:03:36+00:00

This is going to make me sound kind of conceited, but meh. I was a Hermione growing up, awkward and nerdy. All of a sudden, in my late teens, I blossomed and got really pretty. I had boobs and hips and all of a sudden my guy friends were weird with me. I was actually really lonely because I was smart and pretty and most guys were too intimidated to ask me out. I found out years after high school that a lot of my guy friends were interested in me, but were too scared to approach me. It's comforting now, but it didn't make going to prom with a friend sting less. Hot girls get a lot of catcalls, but don't get a lot of sincere approaches. Honesty is also really important. More than likely, if you ask a hot girl to get coffee with you or to go play Pokémon (if you see her playing) or whatever, she'll at the very least try to let you down easy for being sincere and not just yelling out "Hey baby, wanna blow me?" <this actually happened to me. I told him to blow himself. I modeled for a couple of years and know a lot of other models and it's surprising how rarely we get approached by men who treat us like people rather than fuckdolls. Oh and if you're nervous and having a hard time approaching her or a hard time conversing, just be honest. If you tell a girl "I'm sorry I can't think of anything to talk about, I'm just taken aback by how beautiful you are." She'll be flattered and more than likely cut you a little slack :) Good luck!

Big_TX · 2016-07-28T20:08:05+00:00

A method is figure out your values, then live up to them to a tee, then you have no more status anxiety because you live up to your values perfectly no one lives does because they value different things

G_Refined · 2016-07-28T19:29:22+00:00

Well that is definitely a confidence thing and they are tough to tackle. One of the easiest ways to improve your confidence is to get into better shape (granted you could be a physique model, but then again I doubt you would be having this issue). When you get into better shape people will notice and start giving you compliments and you'll start to view yourself in the same league as the super hot girls. A second way is fake it until you become it, tell yourself everyday that you are enough for the super hottie. When you meet a super hot girl, pretend she's not that hot and tell yourself you've been with hotter. The third way, which will really lead you to the land of milk and honey, is getting with a super hot girl. This is the turning point because now you've been there and you have first hand experience that the super hot girl is EXACTLY like the rest of the girls you meet. You'll realize, "wow, that wasn't to hard, I guess I'm a guy that can get with super hot girls", and when you realize that, the hot girls become incredibly less intimidating.

YeahNahfuckOptus · 2016-07-29T03:11:20+00:00

I'm new to this but I've actually managed to get over the "being intimidated" part so I'll try and chip in. But as I said, very new to all of this (still majorly struggling with AA!) so take everything I say with a grain of salt.

Anyhoo, one way you can look at it is, you're intimidated by her because you're comparing her looks to yours and it may be a case where it's a battle you can't win. But the thing is, you're not offering the girl physical attraction. You're offering her a fun experience, both in bed and in life. Her looks has zero impact on that. Your life is going to be fun regardless. You're just inviting her to your world to experience it. Her looking good means you have allowed her to enter into your world of fun and excitement. You're not looking for her approval, you're actually the one granting it.

As you probably understood from that, I do assume that you have your life sorted and you're living it in your terms. That's why inner game so hyped and almost a cliche - a strong inner game allows you to be in a position to choose instead of wishing that the girl chooses you. If you choose her but she doesn't want to... well, her loss. There's plenty more hb10s out there who will graciously accept your offer.

Idk if any of that made any sense but now I've put too much effort into typing this to delete it.

ViZeShadowZ · 2016-07-29T03:15:05+00:00

Carry around a bucket of Ice water

brucenasty · 2016-07-29T03:21:06+00:00

this dude has some reallly good pointers. check out this vid, you might like the rest of the channel.

CasualFrank · 2016-07-29T10:28:23+00:00

I feel like thinking about how their makeup probably makes them look hot which is a illusion.

brucenasty · 2016-07-28T22:00:13+00:00

Go to a venue like Hooters, or some type of sleazy establishment where they are clearly making money off hot chicks, then make them work harder, return your food, complain theyre bad waitresses, yell at them, tell them their father doesn't love them, make sexist remarks.

smoothiechode · 2016-07-29T00:16:33+00:00

Hang around with them more, preferably have sex with them. You'll then quickly realize they're just human beings like you trying to get by in a difficult world.

Tinder helped me with entitlement issues with 9s and 10s. I just put the time in to set up an awesome tinder profile that stood out from the dick sea of mediocrity. This consistently got me matches and dates with the hottest girls in my area. This website helped me immensely with setting up a badass profile, the advice these guys give is super legit: http://tinderprofile.com

I then proceeded to systematically have sex with them all until I realized how self-inflicted and silly my limiting beliefs were.

I recommend the same.

Let me know how you get along.

Peace.

Title	Hot girls intimidate me
Author	henker220
Upvotes	5
Comments	19
Date	July 28, 2016 7:13 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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