So I just read a post a few days ago about some Tinder success. I downloaded Tinder for like the 15th time after deleting it. You would think, if I deleted Tinder 15 times it was for a reason.

Before I continue a little about me. Age 31; Toned. Colored eyes (Green eyes) - White guy. Workout. Pretty happy with my physique. I get complimented on my looks at least once a week IRL. Most women will say "You have pretty eyes" - etc. My game is Rather weak, but I try to practice initiating conversation with women wherever I go now.; I've been practicing game for 2 months so I'm trying to get back into it, been in a relationship past 3 years just got out of it. I'm not saying this to sound cocky; I'm giving perspective and I eat a clean diet and workout; so you know where I am coming from.

You would think, if I deleted my POF account at least 60 times in the past year it would be for a reason. Basically, FUCK online game. Now I do not live in a Major city, but fuck it regardless. I am not sure how sleazy photos and shirtless pics / swiping right is supposed to get me laid but it does absolutely nothing for me.

What do you think is better for you, psychologically? - Preparing your looks, engaging in conversation every chance you get wether it be at the gas station, coffee shop, grocery store, - forcing yourself to go out, even if it's alone to various places like a bar etc;

Or going home, and taking a blurry photo of yourself in the corner with your shirt off and swiping left and right all day. Fuck that shit. I am not sure why I keep getting suckered into trying these things out. - Does online game work? Maybe it does, maybe there is a certain algorithm for getting it to work. Do the relationships last? Are the woman of quality value? Who the fuck knows.

I've met women online. All of them were Crazy AF. Sure, I "banged some" a few years back; but unless Ive got hours and hours to shoot out hundreds of messages and get rejected hundreds of times, what's the fucking point? - I recently read a DIFFERENT Tinder article about a few months back; a guy just took a photo of himself with his abs. Looked like a Total Choad.

BTW; most of it is based on some key quality about yourself you can convey towards the chick. I met a chick who had an Elvis fetish; and I at the time was going for the Rockabilly look. She invited me over and Same night lay. I met another lady who was into younger guys, got a lay off that, but she was batshit nutter. I've changed my style since then but does it necessarily mean I'm meeting quality, sane women? hardly.

That was about 4 years ago. I've changed my style since then and it seems that unless you are fitting into a society pre-conceived mold of what a man is supposed to look like, your success will vary. Honestly, I'm so fucking tired of writting outrageous, immature profiles, or getting a certain "Haircut" to convey that I'm a douche-bag trying to get laid. Then having to filter through 200 women to find one that might find something superficially attractive about me and run game on that.

Now I recently have gotten a # off POF. It was because I was holding a guitar and she likes guitar players. Ended up being a single mom whos unemployed. Looks wise she was about a 8.5/9 - tall blonde. But basically my "Gimmick" was that she was attracted to the fact I had a guitar in one of my pictures. Had really nothing to do with my games / looks skills.

Sure if you send out a million messages eventually statistically you will have some success. Sure. But even then you still have to try to meet up with them and converse.

The reason I prefer real life, is I can easily screen quickly if a woman is into me just by her eye contact, stance, energy, within 2 seconds. And even if I go up to her and start a conversation, she has no choice but to respond. On the internet, I can send out 200 messages and not get a shit response, unless I can think of a way to Make fun of their profile, or neg them; which gets tedious, fucking stupid and boring.

Fuck, I'm tired of playing these immature "Neg" - "Diss" games to get attention online to women with over-inflated senses of worth.

Then he said, out of about 20,000 left swipes, he got about 5-10 lays supposedly. 20,000 FUCKING SWIPES???? Who the FUCK has time for that type of bullshit? That's fucking STUPID. Then they create a webpage that says "HOW TO GET LAID: ONLINE, SUCCESSFUL" - Hello, if you are swiping 20,000 times and only get 10 responses how is that success?

Imagine putting that effort into conversating with real women, IRL; how would your success change? The last guy who recommended to take some shirtless pics; model style pictures said "Why try to get #'s IRL when they will just flake on you anyway.. use tinder game" - claims to have fucked 3 women on Thanksgiving day. Doesn't even post proof, just vague conversations on IM messenger and blurry photos of the girl.

Interestingly, he claims to have fucked 3 girls on Thanksgiving, then posts the link to his Strategy on Nov. 3rd, the day BEFORE thanksgiving. Can somebody say.. CLICK BAIT?

That's like me saying, "I fucked 5 girls on tinder on Christmas DAY" - Link to a spam riddled pop-up strategy page, and then post my "strategies" on how to do it on Christmas eve... If it was so great.. why would you wait a year to post your strategy? Because it's a fucking SCAM and you're trying to net views to your page Choad boy.

Gullibly I fell for it, re-downloaded tinder and realized how much fucking bullshit the fucking APP is. I also am more toned than the guy and can pretty much almost see my ab-lines visibly; Arms toned and lean. Guess how many matches I netted on Tinder?

ZERO.

Oh, but the other day I netted myself a a nice 15 minute conversation with the cashier at the fast food place by... GASP TALKING TO HER IRL... GEE .. Who would have thought TALKING TO WOMEN IRL WORKS... (Just forgot to get her #) - Besides, who the fuck Brags about banging "3 different women on Thanksgiving day" then posts miniscule proof and some supposed strategy(?)

If I say a stupid joke to a Cashier.. OMG.. She LAUGHS. She doesn't "Unread" my message or ignore me. When it's face to face it's totally different. Interestingly I can look IRL and see some balding, 59 year old guy with white hair walking next to a hot model. WOW! - INTERESTING! Maybe I should ask him what HE'S DOING! Because I certainly don't think he is going home and swiping left on Tinder all day.

(Yes, yesterday I saw a a balding fat old guy walking with a 10) - She was like 6'2 model; walking Goddess. I was like.. I need to ask HIM for Advice. Not the Choad scammers that post links to their click bait on here.

What kind of Scumbags are busy banging on Thanksgiving day anyway? Let these Issue ridden women find their families.. And GO buy a fucking Turkey and Pie for your own Family you creeper son-of-a-bitch; it's the Holiday season! Go do something Cheerful and meaningful, not posting how to lay stray cat-women with no families and looking for a scumbag. How did it go down? Were these chicks all sitting around at the family dinner table and all of a sudden Dad says..

"Let's take a moment to be thankful for. Sweetheart, if you can get off your phone please."

"Sorry Mom and Dad, there is a guy on Tinder who said he wants to eat my Turkey. If you'll excuse me please."

Then he shows up and they go upstairs and he bangs the shit out of her while family has thanksgiving meal.

BULLSHIT!

BULL-FUCKING-SHIT!

BULL-SHIT!

BTW the conversations he posted went something like this.

"HEY I WANT TO SIT ON YOUR FACE AND EAT YOU OUT LIKE A TURKEY"

"OK LETS DO IT"

"OK LETS"

BANGS THE GIRL ON THANKSGIVING DAY

BULL-FUCKING-SHIT!!!!!!!

You're not going to find me swiping left 20,000 times because ..FUCK THAT BULLSHIT!!!