Fun conversation points, games etc. you use when getting drinks with a new girl?

WhosCountin · 2015-02-24T16:52:53+00:00

Tyrions (not sure if that's how you spell his name)drinking game. Basically, you take turns making assumptions about one another, if you're right the other person drinks and you guess again, if you're wrong you drink and pass turn. Fun game. Conversation topics, usually family, occupation, aspirations, if you can reminisce with her about good memories that usually builds a pretty good emotional bond. Another game (usually I don't play this one unless the conversation dies down because the girl is shy or something because there are better things to talk about) which is pretty fun, you basically people watch and make up stories about them. It's fun and you can learn about the girls sense of humor among other things. Hope these help

Guerillerooo · 2015-02-24T21:19:37+00:00

Make a game of asking each other out of the box questions that get your imagination going. The question is answered only when the other person says so.

I found that to be fun and effective. You can think about it in advance but it's quite easy actually once you get into it. Questions like:

If you were a professional criminal, what would you do?
If you had to wear a warning label - what would it say?
If you could wake up tomorrow anywhere with anyone in any situation, where/how/... would you wake up?
If you were to be reborn as an animal...
...

Make sure you reveal something about yourself and you're guaranteed to bond intensively.

thenakedspeaker · 2015-02-24T20:49:47+00:00

I just posted this thread as it's own post but I think these might be good to try. 1. Get Too Intimate Too Quickly I know this sounds counterintuitive. Asking someone what their hopes and dreams are for the future or how their love life is going right after you meet sounds awkward and creepy right? Maybe. The key is to show her that you realize how ridiculous and awkward it is and that you are just joking. You are not actually looking for the answer to the question. You are just trying to put her on the spot and make her wonder if you are being serious or not. After she gives me an umm….with a weird look you should smile and let her know that no, you’re not that creepy, you just wanted to see how she’d react. 2. Mock Brag About Yourself A lot of guys will brag about themselves to impress women. Don’t be that guy. However, girls will appreciate it if you mock the cocky guys she is used to listening to. The more overly cocky you are the better. (So she will know you’re just joking) “I don’t know if you know this but I’m pretty famous. I make tons of cash. Yeah, bitches love me.” Mocking the cocky douche-a-saurus she hates to listen to can be a great way to make her laugh and show her you know how ridiculous and pathetic guys like that are. 3. Flip Gender Roles This is always a little unexpected and can lead to some very fun encounters. Asking a girl if she minds buying you a drink (because that’s the only reason you talk to girls), or wondering out loud if she is trying to seduce you is a fun way to connect with her. It shows that you know how interactions tend to work and who is expected to do what. Flipping it around can show her that the interaction doesn’t have to go how it usually does. The two of you don’t have to be constrained by traditional gender roles in the seduction process. Have fun with it. 4. Let Her in on a Secret Nobody likes secrets. Unless, of course, they’re in on it. Asking her if you can tell her a secret and then whispering conspiratorially can be a lot of fun. It can be something you genuinely believe about her “I think you’re cute” or something funny about the context “That guy is dancing really weirdly”. This allows you to bring her close to you and connect on this secret that no one else is in on. Not to mention the practical purpose it can serve if you are in a loud bar/club where conversation is tougher. 5. Make Fun of Her Effect on You If you truly believe a girl has a great smile or a cool style don’t be afraid to tell her that. In fact, you can even take it a step further and exaggerate how much it is affecting you. “Oh my god your smile. It’s too cute. I can’t even look at it.” Or “Your style. It’s intoxicating. I don’t even think I need this alcohol.” Obviously you’re kidding, but you’re showing honest appreciation for her and doing it in a funny way. This should never be an “act” and you shouldn’t be giving insincere compliments. Tell her what you like about her as if you have no choice but to tell her. Like you wouldn’t respect yourself in the morning if you didn’t let her know how she is affecting you. Who knows. Maybe she’ll compliment you back.

atooraya · 2015-02-24T21:13:47+00:00

Whos in my mouth.

kingpinkyle · 2015-02-24T16:11:12+00:00

ask her for her opinion/advice about the drink!

HappyMexican · 2015-02-24T22:16:07+00:00

I have this exact thing happening too this friday (hopefully no flake). Luckily I got a nerdy one, and I think she wants to video games or play magic the gathering at our local video game bar, and drink some. I Like some of these drinking converstation games posted here, very useful.

Good luck to you fair sir

Title	Fun conversation points, games etc. you use when getting drinks with a new girl?
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