Do these actually exist? Girls who cause you to go against your rules and processes completely?

I've been on Seddit for around 6 months and have done really well. I average 2-5 dates a week with girls from Day-Game and Night-Game on my campus. I've always been the one to take lead and it's clear that I'm making the calls (at least initially.) I'm really confident and have no issues opening girls, making decisions and maintaining an abundance mentality. Recently I've met someone in a friend group of mine. We see each other regularly and as such i've hesitated from asking her out (just because things can get awkward.) However I continually find myself breaking rules with her. She somehow manages to rope me into long text conversations, opening up about personal topics (whereas she doesn't do the same) etc. I'm honestly really perplexed because my game is thrown off with her. She definitely puts in equal effort, imitates every time we talk, invites me to do things and vice versa. I've kept our interaction to a group level though. There's obviously attraction between us and she's one of the few women I could see entering into a relationship with. I guess i'm concerned because for the first time I feel like the tables are turned on me and I don't know how to feel and act. Should I be worried and try to gain the upper hand again or should I just role with this? Definitely still going to date other girls and maintain abundance mentality. I'm not worried about loosing her, just not sure how I should go about the situation.