I used to do pickup all the time years ago; I've been in a relationship with a girl I met doing so, shes extremely physically attractive; were in a stage in our relationship where she is cool with me having sex with another girl, but not when shes around. I know, I'm fortunate to even have this situation. My question is, in the past, I was legit single when I went out and now I live with a girl and am in a "open relationship" basically. For those of you in such a relationship, how do you approach dealing with the prospective girls that you approach and hook up with?

Do you tell them right away (or soon thereafter) when they ask "are you single?" I've thought about just saying "I'm in an open relationship, FYI" and just try to find ones who are cool with it. I feel like this approach may take longer to find the right girls but once found, could be a big win because it will likely screen out girls that want more than sex. I want to make it very clear that I DO NOT want more than sex and am happy with my current girlfriend as far as relationship stuff goes. I know in order to get sex, I have to be cordial and attract the woman still, thats fine, but I really would not want to continue seeing a girl who I can tell is starting to get attached or want more. In the past, I noticed girls that were cheating, had kids, or older women were more down for this because they were no longer in the "omg I need to meet a man and have children" mindset.

This is all new to me because before when I did pickup, I was always single and therefore didn't ever have to address that subject because no girl cares if you're single lol.

Finally, any tips on logistics of actually having sex? I always had my own place before and I brought women there, I'm not super good at inviting myself over and I also know that many women either can't or don't want to go to their place - but I suppose women 30+ may be more likely to be able to. Obviously, car is always an option too. If I can find a woman available during the day I could have her over when my gf is at work but otherwise she'll be there so its a no go.