Getting back in the game after a breakup

5_7pickup · 2022-09-19T11:28:56+00:00

Step one is encounter more women. Go meet more women first.

secretiveturnip · 2022-09-19T09:48:16+00:00

Firstly, well done for focusing on yourself.

Honestly, I’d say keep doing this…but also open yourself up more to romantic encounters.

Personally I followed this process:

make a list of stuff you want to experience/learn (this could be general stuff, but also stuff to make you a better at dating - cooking courses, public speaking etc)
systematically get out there and do those things
be very open when you do them, don’t just turn up and do the thing…speak to people (men and women)
just because people doing that ‘thing’ might not be your type, doesn’t mean there isn’t an opportunity (the hottest girl I ever hooked up with I met in a bar after agreeing to go for some drinking a with a bunch of 40+ work colleagues)

In short:

work on yourself
get out there

Swoosh-8 · 2022-09-19T15:35:33+00:00

One of the best things I did after ending a relationship was take a solo trip. Honestly the absolute best thing I could’ve did for myself.

SharpAd3703 · 2022-09-19T19:19:07+00:00

Should always be running game, should be something like brushing your teeth to stay sharp in case of a break up that way you'll never be at a loss. The guys I know that stay sharp with weekly daily practice damn near never lose a girl ie break up because the girl senses this guy could replace me with little effort. This teaches to have the ability to create abundance at will because it is a skill like catching fish being self sufficient. Need no one to thrive survive.

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thegamermasquerader · 2022-09-19T15:32:30+00:00

Masturbate vigorously

EatUhFrank · 2022-09-20T00:57:39+00:00

I’m curious about this too dating apps fucking suck. Plus I don’t know how this dating stuff in the real world. Dating in high school was a different ball game.

I’m 19 year old working on myself, and etc. But I don’t know where to begin improving on my dating life or just making female friends in general. Cold approaching is just too much for me at the moment.

Title	Getting back in the game after a breakup
Author	yourfatherx
Upvotes	23
Comments	11
Date	September 19, 2022 9:02 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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