Getting better but still inconsistent

AttractandSeduce · 2015-08-09T22:47:49+00:00

Hey Sederrr,

Good to hear about the progress your making!

Here is the advice I want to give you. Your doing great so far so accept the following tips if you want to keep improving.

From what your telling us, your saying that you dated a more attractive girl than you usually date.

The best way to become more comfortable and be able to better handle these situations with the more attractive girls (and the better your game is the hotter the girls you will generally be able to date/sleep with) is to date/sleep/hangout with more of these type of beautiful girls.

At first it feels uncomfortable because it's easy to get into the scarcity mentality( where you think that you may not be able to date/sleep with another girl that is just as beautiful as the girl your talking about)

You got to TRAIN yourself to get into an abundance mentality. This is where you date more attractive girls like 8's, 9's and 10's and you are very comfortable with them. If you loose one or a few it's no big deal because you will almost always have 8's, 9's and 10's wanting you.

To get to this level though you got to date/sleep/hangout with more of these types of girls until getting these types of girls are easy.

This will not happen over night. I think you know this already. Takes months and years of practice and could be less if a coach guides you along the way. Why not start now though if this idea might interest you. As you keep practicing your "pick up" skills with the hotter girls, naturally you will get better and you will be much better at handling situations like the one recent one you were in.

For the meantime just learn as much as you can from these experiences. One day you might be like, "yup, that used to be me"

However, don't completely neglect the 7's or girls that are less attractive then a 7. To keep your confidence high as well as your self esteem, keep gaming these girls as they will boost you up.

If your interested on how to escalate sexually (which is vitally important) the right way, check out this post I made a while back. I'm sure you will like it and you will find other useful information that will help take you to the next level. Click the link below to check it out:

http://www.attractandseducehotwomen.com/seduction/escalating-sexually/#sthash.lnEeNSYV.dpbs

DaygameCoach · 2015-08-10T02:02:49+00:00

"tl;dr - how can I be more sexual/create tension with girls who I think in the back of my head are more attractive than me? I don't even know if I should approach her as someone I can hook up with or build a relationship with. How did you deal with issues like this?"

Male and female attraction are not necessarily apples to apples. You need to understand that. Men look at a woman and it's "hot" or "not," nice and easy. Either you'd do it or not, with a very small "maybe" category. But for women, it;s about how you make her feel which is a combination of inner and outer game (including looks), game, approach, confidence, humor, etc. So, your attractiveness as a man is more than just how you look.

So, you don't need to be as physically hot as your targets. Heck, I don't even date women in my age or weight range. :)

Cuisine, daygamer.net

Title	Getting better but still inconsistent
Author	sederrr
Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	August 9, 2015 9:29 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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